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Ruthiep · 22nd February, 2012

Your best bet is to get a copy of The Writers and Artists Year Book. That has all the literary agents listed, and what they specialise in. You can usually find it in the library too.

VikiB · 22nd February, 2012

Ok thanks honey will check into it when I get it all together and ready

I tried smash today...bad idea I have never felt so nauseous without getting sick and I only had three spoons..also feel like I've eaten a serving bowl full of it..definitely will not be trying that again.
I've been really tired today and just schleping around in my pjs falling asleep watching tv...didn't get a thing done today at all. Maybe more protein needed.
Tomorrow is my first day of real food...not sure what to have or what to try. Hmmm I fancy prawns but have heard some can't eat them anymore...should I give it a try??

PurpleKylie22 · 22nd February, 2012

If I were you then I would try it, Prawns seem like a good thing to eat, no fat, Its fish so I'm assuming plenty of protein? I would just make sure you only have one or two. Take tiny bites and chew really well!
Good luck tomorrow

First day of solids is exciting! hehe

VikiB · 22nd February, 2012

I've been trying to add lots of flavour to things...thinking since I can't eat very much I should make food taste as good as possible. So might do some in garlic

or ohhh chili prawns with mangtoute yummm...thats it chili prawns is tomorrows tea

The protein in prawns is 18 g per 100 g thats pretty good protein wise

I will take it very slowly and chew chew chew. It is very exciting after the last 8 weeks of not quite food lol.

VikiB · 23rd February, 2012

ok I've been shopping. I got some prawns, chili, garlic and ginger as well as some veg for tonights tea

It sounds really good and I hope it goes down ok with no problems...will let you know. I walked to the store...mostly because I forgot to put money on my oyster card duh!! oh well it was a nice day for a walk and it felt good

Besides that I need to get off my backside and get some exercise anyway lol.
Hope you all had a lovely day and enjoyed the sunshine
lots of love

Tonibones10 · 23rd February, 2012

I hope you enjoyed it, and the walk will do you good not just for exercise but to clear your head

I hope your ok hun Xx

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VikiB · 23rd February, 2012

My tea was lovely. I used four prawns, four mangtoute , two baby corns and a spring onions all cut into pieces with chili, ginger and garlic and a splash of soy sauce was heaven on a plate and I had a tiny bit of watermelon afterwards. No nausea no pain nothing just enjoyment of a healthy dinner in a healthy portion. I have enough ingredients left to make it another two times. I'm good today honey thanks. Hope you are ok.
The walk was nice. It was so warm today. And for once nobody gave me the look (you know the one).
lots of love

Tonibones10 · 23rd February, 2012

Aaww that's great about you feeling good today, you deserve it, yeah the look can make you feel like giving up (well it does to me) so I'm glad Noone gave it you, ... that dinner sounds lovely huni Xx

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VikiB · 25th February, 2012

Yesterday was a bad day for me emotionally and food wise. First I had a blow out with husband and then called to see about my bidding code for housing only to find out that I am on the tenancy here and will not be given a code unless I make myself homeless by taking my name off the tenancy and then they can't help me because I made myself homeless voluntarily AHHHH!!! stuck stuck stuck I can see why people here become homicidal or suicidal. It's like being caught in a circle. Needless to say was angry most of the day as well as sad and depressed so I emotionally ate (like old days turning to food for comfort) but my new tummy didn't like that at all so I spent most of the day crying in the loo puking. Another lesson learned no emotional eating in future. Today I am trying to sort a new plan.
I'm going to go out in a few minutes as I need to be out of this house for a little while so I can clear my head a bit. I hope you are having a better time than I am right now.
lots of love always

JO28172 · 25th February, 2012

Aw Vick that's horrid predicament you're in, is private rented an option? Not as good I know but if it gets you out.....! X

VikiB · 25th February, 2012

It looks like that will be the route I'll be taking which will just involve me coming up with around £1500 for the rent deposit and month in advance. So will be working on my plan and sorting it in my head so I can get it going and get out of here asap...only other cheaper option is the undesirable one of returning to America

that will be my LAST resort.
Thanks for caring

JO28172 · 25th February, 2012

Been there chick that's why I understand! It will all come good so hang on in there x

Newmelani · 25th February, 2012

I'm so sorry your in such a bind Viki. I really hope you get things figured out soon. You deserve to be on your own and happy. It sounds like foodwise you are really starting to figure things out. I'm actually getting nervous to have real food... LOL. Sorry I've been so absent. I miss talking to you. Hugs my friend!

Nige65 · 25th February, 2012

When my partner moved out she went to the council they asked if i had been harming her which she said no we get on and we are best of friends still but they said if i was would be emergency then to find her a place but she had 2 young children now im not telling you to lie but bend the truth alittle and ask what if i was in danger could you help me then .

Worth asking the question .

f a relationship breaks down because of domestic violence, we will not rehouse or grant the tenancy of the existing property to the person behaving violently. If the person behaving violently is the tenant, we will take action to evict them for seriously breaking their tenancy agreement.
Joint tenancies

Relationship breakdown

If you have been living with someone as a couple in a stable relationship and that relationship breaks down permanently, we will do all we can to rehouse one or both of you. If we need to rehouse you and your ex-partner, we will expect vacant possession of the house. We will treat your case under the relationship breakdown policy as long as

You have been in the relationship for at least three years and you have been living together as a couple throughout
You were in the relationship at the start of the tenancy or in a previous council-owned property for at least three years and you can prove this
You or your partner are able to provide proof that your relationship has broken down permanently and
Your relationship has not broken down as a result of any
form of domestic violence.

A stable relationship is one where either you or your partner or both) were granted the original tenancy, are named on the original tenancy agreement and have been living together as a couple for at least three years either in your current home or in a property we own.
If you have dependent children and the existing property is of an appropriate size, we will encourage the person who is responsible for looking after the children to stay in the original property and we will rehouse the other person.
We will expect the person asking to be rehoused because their relationship has broken down to provide evidence. We will interview the person applying for housing in private, and they can be interviewed by a person of the same sex if they want to. Before we decide to accept their request for rehousing, we will normally interview the other person, unless it appears that the person applying is the victim of domestic violence.
We cannot say how long it will take to rehouse either or both partners in a relationship. This is because there are increasing and competing demands on available accommodation and we must consider the needs of everyone applying for housing according to government legislation and local need.
Everyone applying for housing should consider all of the options open to them to find alternative accommodation.

Or take him off the tenancy and tell him to go.

Yvessa · 25th February, 2012

Can you stop paying the rent? You could then save that money towards deposit and your husband would have to find his own place.

22nd February, 2012	#541 (permalink)
Ruthiep Likes to post Ruthiep's Profile Albums Ruthiep's Photo Gallery Join Date: 22nd December, 2011 Location: London UK Posts: 739 Thanks: 0 Thanked 69 Times in 67 Posts Rep Power: 71 Consultant: Mr. Pratik Sufi Funding: Private Surgery Type: sleeve gastrectomy Surgery Date: 30th November 2011 Height: 5' 1" Gender: Female Start Date: 15th November 2011 (pre op) Start Weight: 200lb Current Weight: 148lb Goal Weight: 140lb Goal Date: whenever BMI Information: Start BMI: 37.8 Current BMI: 28 Goal BMI: 26.4 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 52lb Weight to Lose: 8lb % Lost: 26% %EWL: 76.2%	Your best bet is to get a copy of The Writers and Artists Year Book. That has all the literary agents listed, and what they specialise in. You can usually find it in the library too. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter VikiB likes this. __________________ Ruthie xx

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VikiB Likes to post VikiB's Profile Albums VikiB's Photo Gallery Join Date: 15th November, 2011 Location: Erith, Kent Posts: 377 Thanks: 89 Thanked 14 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 5 Consultant: Dr El Hasani Funding: NHS Surgery Type: gastric bypass Surgery Date: 29 December 2011 Height: 5' 4" Gender: Female Start Weight: 308lb Current Weight: 210lb Goal Weight: 140lb Goal Date: asap BMI Information: Start BMI: 52.9 Current BMI: 36 Goal BMI: 24 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 98lb Weight to Lose: 70lb % Lost: 31.82% %EWL: 60.2%	Ok thanks honey will check into it when I get it all together and ready I tried smash today...bad idea I have never felt so nauseous without getting sick and I only had three spoons..also feel like I've eaten a serving bowl full of it..definitely will not be trying that again. I've been really tired today and just schleping around in my pjs falling asleep watching tv...didn't get a thing done today at all. Maybe more protein needed. Tomorrow is my first day of real food...not sure what to have or what to try. Hmmm I fancy prawns but have heard some can't eat them anymore...should I give it a try?? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ HUGS Viks Largest weight November 2008...22 stone under 20 stone...November 2011 under 19 stone...December 2011 under 18 stone...January 2012 under 17 stone...February 2012 under 16 stone...March 2012 under 15 stone...April 2012 under 14 stone under 13 stone under 12 stone under 11 stone 1st Goal 10 stone Ultimate goal 9 stone add me to facebook www.facebook.com/rita.toller

22nd February, 2012	#543 (permalink)
PurpleKylie22 Likes to post PurpleKylie22's Profile Albums PurpleKylie22's Photo Gallery Join Date: 27th August, 2010 Location: Aberdeen, UK Posts: 413 Thanks: 10 Thanked 29 Times in 28 Posts Rep Power: 20 Funding: N/A Surgery Type: Would like Bypass Height: 5' 4" Gender: Female Start Date: 30/07/1985 Start Weight: 297lb Current Weight: 263lb Goal Weight: 145lb Goal Date: 30/07/2020 BMI Information: Start BMI: 51 Current BMI: 45.1 Goal BMI: 24.9 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 34lb Weight to Lose: 118lb % Lost: 11.45% %EWL: 22.4%	If I were you then I would try it, Prawns seem like a good thing to eat, no fat, Its fish so I'm assuming plenty of protein? I would just make sure you only have one or two. Take tiny bites and chew really well! Good luck tomorrow First day of solids is exciting! hehe Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter VikiB likes this. __________________ Mum to 3 lovely boys Rejected for weight management program because my BMI is -60

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VikiB Likes to post VikiB's Profile Albums VikiB's Photo Gallery Join Date: 15th November, 2011 Location: Erith, Kent Posts: 377 Thanks: 89 Thanked 14 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 5 Consultant: Dr El Hasani Funding: NHS Surgery Type: gastric bypass Surgery Date: 29 December 2011 Height: 5' 4" Gender: Female Start Weight: 308lb Current Weight: 210lb Goal Weight: 140lb Goal Date: asap BMI Information: Start BMI: 52.9 Current BMI: 36 Goal BMI: 24 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 98lb Weight to Lose: 70lb % Lost: 31.82% %EWL: 60.2%	I've been trying to add lots of flavour to things...thinking since I can't eat very much I should make food taste as good as possible. So might do some in garlic or ohhh chili prawns with mangtoute yummm...thats it chili prawns is tomorrows tea The protein in prawns is 18 g per 100 g thats pretty good protein wise I will take it very slowly and chew chew chew. It is very exciting after the last 8 weeks of not quite food lol. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter PurpleKylie22 likes this. __________________ HUGS Viks Largest weight November 2008...22 stone under 20 stone...November 2011 under 19 stone...December 2011 under 18 stone...January 2012 under 17 stone...February 2012 under 16 stone...March 2012 under 15 stone...April 2012 under 14 stone under 13 stone under 12 stone under 11 stone 1st Goal 10 stone Ultimate goal 9 stone add me to facebook www.facebook.com/rita.toller

23rd February, 2012	#545 (permalink)
VikiB Likes to post VikiB's Profile Albums VikiB's Photo Gallery Join Date: 15th November, 2011 Location: Erith, Kent Posts: 377 Thanks: 89 Thanked 14 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 5 Consultant: Dr El Hasani Funding: NHS Surgery Type: gastric bypass Surgery Date: 29 December 2011 Height: 5' 4" Gender: Female Start Weight: 308lb Current Weight: 210lb Goal Weight: 140lb Goal Date: asap BMI Information: Start BMI: 52.9 Current BMI: 36 Goal BMI: 24 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 98lb Weight to Lose: 70lb % Lost: 31.82% %EWL: 60.2%	ok I've been shopping. I got some prawns, chili, garlic and ginger as well as some veg for tonights tea It sounds really good and I hope it goes down ok with no problems...will let you know. I walked to the store...mostly because I forgot to put money on my oyster card duh!! oh well it was a nice day for a walk and it felt good Besides that I need to get off my backside and get some exercise anyway lol. Hope you all had a lovely day and enjoyed the sunshine lots of love Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter PurpleKylie22 likes this. __________________ HUGS Viks Largest weight November 2008...22 stone under 20 stone...November 2011 under 19 stone...December 2011 under 18 stone...January 2012 under 17 stone...February 2012 under 16 stone...March 2012 under 15 stone...April 2012 under 14 stone under 13 stone under 12 stone under 11 stone 1st Goal 10 stone Ultimate goal 9 stone add me to facebook www.facebook.com/rita.toller

23rd February, 2012	#546 (permalink)
Tonibones10 I WILL BE HAPPY!!!! Tonibones10's Profile Albums Tonibones10's Photo Gallery Join Date: 4th January, 2012 Location: halifax Posts: 1,515 Thanks: 92 Thanked 59 Times in 59 Posts Rep Power: 36 Consultant: Mr Pedro N Ballester Funding: NHS Surgery Type: a gastric bypass Height: 5' 8" Gender: Female Start Date: 14th may 1989!!! Start Weight: 381lb Current Weight: 381lb Goal Weight: 180lb Goal Date: asap!!!!!!!!!!!!! BMI Information: Start BMI: 57.9 Current BMI: 57.9 Goal BMI: 27.4 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 0lb Weight to Lose: 201lb % Lost: 0% %EWL: 0%	I hope you enjoyed it, and the walk will do you good not just for exercise but to clear your head I hope your ok hun Xx Sent from my HTC Hero using WLSurgery Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter VikiB likes this. __________________

23rd February, 2012	#547 (permalink)
VikiB Likes to post VikiB's Profile Albums VikiB's Photo Gallery Join Date: 15th November, 2011 Location: Erith, Kent Posts: 377 Thanks: 89 Thanked 14 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 5 Consultant: Dr El Hasani Funding: NHS Surgery Type: gastric bypass Surgery Date: 29 December 2011 Height: 5' 4" Gender: Female Start Weight: 308lb Current Weight: 210lb Goal Weight: 140lb Goal Date: asap BMI Information: Start BMI: 52.9 Current BMI: 36 Goal BMI: 24 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 98lb Weight to Lose: 70lb % Lost: 31.82% %EWL: 60.2%	My tea was lovely. I used four prawns, four mangtoute , two baby corns and a spring onions all cut into pieces with chili, ginger and garlic and a splash of soy sauce was heaven on a plate and I had a tiny bit of watermelon afterwards. No nausea no pain nothing just enjoyment of a healthy dinner in a healthy portion. I have enough ingredients left to make it another two times. I'm good today honey thanks. Hope you are ok. The walk was nice. It was so warm today. And for once nobody gave me the look (you know the one). lots of love Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ HUGS Viks Largest weight November 2008...22 stone under 20 stone...November 2011 under 19 stone...December 2011 under 18 stone...January 2012 under 17 stone...February 2012 under 16 stone...March 2012 under 15 stone...April 2012 under 14 stone under 13 stone under 12 stone under 11 stone 1st Goal 10 stone Ultimate goal 9 stone add me to facebook www.facebook.com/rita.toller

23rd February, 2012	#548 (permalink)
Tonibones10 I WILL BE HAPPY!!!! Tonibones10's Profile Albums Tonibones10's Photo Gallery Join Date: 4th January, 2012 Location: halifax Posts: 1,515 Thanks: 92 Thanked 59 Times in 59 Posts Rep Power: 36 Consultant: Mr Pedro N Ballester Funding: NHS Surgery Type: a gastric bypass Height: 5' 8" Gender: Female Start Date: 14th may 1989!!! Start Weight: 381lb Current Weight: 381lb Goal Weight: 180lb Goal Date: asap!!!!!!!!!!!!! BMI Information: Start BMI: 57.9 Current BMI: 57.9 Goal BMI: 27.4 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 0lb Weight to Lose: 201lb % Lost: 0% %EWL: 0%	Aaww that's great about you feeling good today, you deserve it, yeah the look can make you feel like giving up (well it does to me) so I'm glad Noone gave it you, ... that dinner sounds lovely huni Xx Sent from my HTC Hero using WLSurgery Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________

25th February, 2012	#549 (permalink)
VikiB Likes to post VikiB's Profile Albums VikiB's Photo Gallery Join Date: 15th November, 2011 Location: Erith, Kent Posts: 377 Thanks: 89 Thanked 14 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 5 Consultant: Dr El Hasani Funding: NHS Surgery Type: gastric bypass Surgery Date: 29 December 2011 Height: 5' 4" Gender: Female Start Weight: 308lb Current Weight: 210lb Goal Weight: 140lb Goal Date: asap BMI Information: Start BMI: 52.9 Current BMI: 36 Goal BMI: 24 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 98lb Weight to Lose: 70lb % Lost: 31.82% %EWL: 60.2%	Yesterday was a bad day for me emotionally and food wise. First I had a blow out with husband and then called to see about my bidding code for housing only to find out that I am on the tenancy here and will not be given a code unless I make myself homeless by taking my name off the tenancy and then they can't help me because I made myself homeless voluntarily AHHHH!!! stuck stuck stuck I can see why people here become homicidal or suicidal. It's like being caught in a circle. Needless to say was angry most of the day as well as sad and depressed so I emotionally ate (like old days turning to food for comfort) but my new tummy didn't like that at all so I spent most of the day crying in the loo puking. Another lesson learned no emotional eating in future. Today I am trying to sort a new plan. I'm going to go out in a few minutes as I need to be out of this house for a little while so I can clear my head a bit. I hope you are having a better time than I am right now. lots of love always Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ HUGS Viks Largest weight November 2008...22 stone under 20 stone...November 2011 under 19 stone...December 2011 under 18 stone...January 2012 under 17 stone...February 2012 under 16 stone...March 2012 under 15 stone...April 2012 under 14 stone under 13 stone under 12 stone under 11 stone 1st Goal 10 stone Ultimate goal 9 stone add me to facebook www.facebook.com/rita.toller

25th February, 2012	#550 (permalink)
JO28172 Really Likes to post JO28172's Profile Albums JO28172's Photo Gallery Join Date: 18th September, 2011 Location: Chesterfield derbyshire Posts: 1,598 Thanks: 0 Thanked 97 Times in 96 Posts Rep Power: 49 Consultant: Dr Ackroyd Funding: Private Surgery Type: Gastric band Surgery Date: 4th Oct 2011 Gender: Female	Aw Vick that's horrid predicament you're in, is private rented an option? Not as good I know but if it gets you out.....! X Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ 17's 21/9/11 Pre Op Milk Diet Commenced - 17st 1.5lb *16's* *4/10/11 Surgery Day! - 16st 5lb* (10.5lb lost) 15's 15/10/11 15st 9.5lb (1st6lb lost) 14's 19/11/11 14st 13.5lb (2st 2lb lost) 13's 17/12/11 13st 13.5lb (3st 2lb lost) 12'S 11/2/12 12st11lb (4st 4.5lb lost) 11's 17/3/12 11st 12.8lb (5st 3lb lost) CURRENT WEIGHT 11ST 1.5LB 6 stone lost to date "come on 10's...youre just around the corner now"

25th February, 2012	#551 (permalink)
VikiB Likes to post VikiB's Profile Albums VikiB's Photo Gallery Join Date: 15th November, 2011 Location: Erith, Kent Posts: 377 Thanks: 89 Thanked 14 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 5 Consultant: Dr El Hasani Funding: NHS Surgery Type: gastric bypass Surgery Date: 29 December 2011 Height: 5' 4" Gender: Female Start Weight: 308lb Current Weight: 210lb Goal Weight: 140lb Goal Date: asap BMI Information: Start BMI: 52.9 Current BMI: 36 Goal BMI: 24 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 98lb Weight to Lose: 70lb % Lost: 31.82% %EWL: 60.2%	It looks like that will be the route I'll be taking which will just involve me coming up with around £1500 for the rent deposit and month in advance. So will be working on my plan and sorting it in my head so I can get it going and get out of here asap...only other cheaper option is the undesirable one of returning to America that will be my LAST resort. Thanks for caring Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ HUGS Viks Largest weight November 2008...22 stone under 20 stone...November 2011 under 19 stone...December 2011 under 18 stone...January 2012 under 17 stone...February 2012 under 16 stone...March 2012 under 15 stone...April 2012 under 14 stone under 13 stone under 12 stone under 11 stone 1st Goal 10 stone Ultimate goal 9 stone add me to facebook www.facebook.com/rita.toller

25th February, 2012	#552 (permalink)
JO28172 Really Likes to post JO28172's Profile Albums JO28172's Photo Gallery Join Date: 18th September, 2011 Location: Chesterfield derbyshire Posts: 1,598 Thanks: 0 Thanked 97 Times in 96 Posts Rep Power: 49 Consultant: Dr Ackroyd Funding: Private Surgery Type: Gastric band Surgery Date: 4th Oct 2011 Gender: Female	Been there chick that's why I understand! It will all come good so hang on in there x Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ 17's 21/9/11 Pre Op Milk Diet Commenced - 17st 1.5lb *16's* *4/10/11 Surgery Day! - 16st 5lb* (10.5lb lost) 15's 15/10/11 15st 9.5lb (1st6lb lost) 14's 19/11/11 14st 13.5lb (2st 2lb lost) 13's 17/12/11 13st 13.5lb (3st 2lb lost) 12'S 11/2/12 12st11lb (4st 4.5lb lost) 11's 17/3/12 11st 12.8lb (5st 3lb lost) CURRENT WEIGHT 11ST 1.5LB 6 stone lost to date "come on 10's...youre just around the corner now"

25th February, 2012	#553 (permalink)
Newmelani Likes to post Newmelani's Profile Albums Newmelani's Photo Gallery Join Date: 30th December, 2011 Posts: 675 Thanks: 0 Thanked 34 Times in 33 Posts Rep Power: 27 Funding: N/A Gender: Female Start Date: 1-16-12 Start Weight: 247lb Current Weight: 226lb Goal Weight: 135lb Goal Date: 1-25-13 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 21lb Weight to Lose: 91lb % Lost: 8.5%	I'm so sorry your in such a bind Viki. I really hope you get things figured out soon. You deserve to be on your own and happy. It sounds like foodwise you are really starting to figure things out. I'm actually getting nervous to have real food... LOL. Sorry I've been so absent. I miss talking to you. Hugs my friend! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________

25th February, 2012	#554 (permalink)
Nige65 Likes to post Nige65's Profile Albums Nige65's Photo Gallery Speartoss 5 Shots Champion! Join Date: 28th March, 2011 Location: Bilston Posts: 117 Thanks: 5 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Rep Power: 3 Consultant: Mr Khan Funding: NHS Surgery Type: Bypass Surgery Date: 30/12/2011 Height: 5' 10" Gender: Male Start Weight: 385lb Current Weight: 239lb BMI Information: Start BMI: 55.2 Current BMI: 34.3 Goal BMI: Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 146lb % Lost: 37.92% %EWL: 69%	When my partner moved out she went to the council they asked if i had been harming her which she said no we get on and we are best of friends still but they said if i was would be emergency then to find her a place but she had 2 young children now im not telling you to lie but bend the truth alittle and ask what if i was in danger could you help me then . Worth asking the question . f a relationship breaks down because of domestic violence, we will not rehouse or grant the tenancy of the existing property to the person behaving violently. If the person behaving violently is the tenant, we will take action to evict them for seriously breaking their tenancy agreement. Joint tenancies Relationship breakdown If you have been living with someone as a couple in a stable relationship and that relationship breaks down permanently, we will do all we can to rehouse one or both of you. If we need to rehouse you and your ex-partner, we will expect vacant possession of the house. We will treat your case under the relationship breakdown policy as long as You have been in the relationship for at least three years and you have been living together as a couple throughout You were in the relationship at the start of the tenancy or in a previous council-owned property for at least three years and you can prove this You or your partner are able to provide proof that your relationship has broken down permanently and Your relationship has not broken down as a result of any form of domestic violence. A stable relationship is one where either you or your partner or both) were granted the original tenancy, are named on the original tenancy agreement and have been living together as a couple for at least three years either in your current home or in a property we own. If you have dependent children and the existing property is of an appropriate size, we will encourage the person who is responsible for looking after the children to stay in the original property and we will rehouse the other person. We will expect the person asking to be rehoused because their relationship has broken down to provide evidence. We will interview the person applying for housing in private, and they can be interviewed by a person of the same sex if they want to. Before we decide to accept their request for rehousing, we will normally interview the other person, unless it appears that the person applying is the victim of domestic violence. We cannot say how long it will take to rehouse either or both partners in a relationship. This is because there are increasing and competing demands on available accommodation and we must consider the needs of everyone applying for housing according to government legislation and local need. Everyone applying for housing should consider all of the options open to them to find alternative accommodation. Or take him off the tenancy and tell him to go. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter Last edited by Nige65 : 25th February, 2012 at 04:20 PM

25th February, 2012	#555 (permalink)
Yvessa Really Likes to post Yvessa's Profile Albums Yvessa's Photo Gallery Join Date: 10th August, 2011 Location: High Wycombe, Bucks Posts: 1,439 Thanks: 69 Thanked 87 Times in 85 Posts Rep Power: 45 Consultant: Mr Whitelaw Funding: NHS Surgery Type: Bypass Surgery Date: 16th April 2012! Height: 5' 6" Gender: Female Start Date: 2nd October 2011 Start Weight: 424lb Current Weight: 348lb Goal Weight: 210lb BMI Information: Start BMI: 68.4 Current BMI: 56.2 Goal BMI: 33.9 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 76lb Weight to Lose: 138lb % Lost: 17.92% %EWL: 28.2%	Can you stop paying the rent? You could then save that money towards deposit and your husband would have to find his own place. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter pandora likes this. __________________ Below 30 stone (preop) Below 29 stone (preop) Below 28 stone (preop) Below 27 stone (preop) BMI Below 60 - 26stone 7lb (postop) 21/04/2012 Below 26 stone (postop) 21/04/2012 Below 25 stone 28/04/2012 Below 24 stone Bypass at L&D on 16th April 2012!

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