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Whats stopping me

Bunster85

New Member
Hi so I'm not feeling high like I thought I would I have my first appt for surgery yet my whole head is telling me don't do it!!!! Help so confused right now!
 

GeMzY

New Member
You will probably go through every emotion there is before during & after such a big op, its understandable its a life changing event.

Saying that though if you are having serious doubts then maybe you are not in the right place in your mind to go ahead.

Do you also get a psychologist with your package? might be worth a chat with them.

Eitherway good luck xx
 

msrsimpkin

Member
Like Gemzy said, you go through an emotional roller coaster as your surgery approaches. I went through the same thing you are at the moment too. I experienced those feelings of doubt and dread.

How am I going to cope not eating my favourite take aways ever again? What if I don't like my new body? What if I don't like the way people react to me after I've lost weight?

So many questions were running through my head. But I just made sure to focus on why I was here in the first place. The reasons I'd begged for the surgery in the first place.
Just sit down and think about all the benefits and the reasons you want to surgery. And if you still feel the same way in a week or so, ask to see your teams' psychologist and talk it out with them. They're there for a reason :)
 

Lincs Lass

New Member
If you weren't questioning you wouldn't be appreciating the enormity of such major surgery. Much better to be thinking things through thoroughly xx
 

Bunster85

New Member
I just worried that even with this I will fall into old habits what is wrong with me!
 

SHARONA

New Member
Bunster85 I had and still having some similar thoughts we are human. Like GeMzY and msrsimpkin said its all part of the roller coaster of our emotions as surgery approaches. All the best with your journey we will get through it all . Best wishes hun x
 

The Old Woman

New Member
It is a major and life changing decision not to be taken lightly. When it is right and if it is right , you will do this. Research and follow your heart.
 

Kar8858

Well-Known Member
I was booked for for June and backed out but am going ahead this month. It is a big decision.
 
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