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| Really Likes to post ![]() ![]() ![]() Karlos's Profile Albums Karlos's Photo Gallery Join Date: 24th July, 2009 Location: Manchester
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Rep Power: 871 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Surgery Type: RNY Bypass Surgery Date: 07.02.09 Height: 5' 9" Gender: Male Start Date: October 2008 Start Weight: 400lb Current Weight: 151lb Goal Weight: 196lb Goal Date: Dec 09 BMI Information: Start BMI: 59.1 Current BMI: 22.3 Goal BMI: 28.9 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 249lb Weight to Lose: -45lb % Lost: 62.25% %EWL: 107.6% | Where did the time go Life isn't about finding yourself; Life is about creating yourself... The above statement really could never be truer than in the case of my weight loss journey over the last two years. I would add to it its about liking what you create too……… This time two short years ago I was sat in the prep room at the Alexander hospital in cheadle waiting to walk into the operating theatre to have my innards rearranged. I was scared to death, not that I wouldn’t make it, as by that time I was so sick of what I had become that I wasn’t sure I cared if I lived or died, I only knew I couldn’t go on the way I was. Nope I was scared only that I would wake up and find that they hadn’t done the procedure for some reason. My fears were unfounded Well I woke up in the high dependency unit and I had actually made it through. There was a small drama with my Blood pressure but that was resolved quickly and I was ready to start my journey to creating the new me. Well two years on how did it go? Did I make a new me and more importantly how do we get along? I lost a shed load of weight. I can do so many things now that were but a distant dream two years ago. I can walk and breath at the same time, I can wear tie up shoes, not have to wear trousers with elastic waist bands etc and so many other great things that I truly never thought that I would be able to do in my life again. Though I take no credit for it I am rather pleased with my weight loss, and that I have been able to keep thirty plus pounds below my goal for fourteen months now. Well done me, a smattering of applause please for the fat lad from Manchester I made a whole new me, or more accurately I lost more than half of me. My family and friends would tell you that I lost the best part of me. Not the fat stores that threatened to kill me within ten years, but the part of me that made me ME. They tell me they hardly recognise me from the jolly happy go lucky fat geezer who was always ready with a smile and a joke, and living with the new Karl is like living with a stranger. Maybe they are right who knows certainly I have no idea. I don’t remember the old me very well. Weight loss surgery is about loss and gain and though I have gained so much to be thankful for, and I have no regrets about having WLS, there are some things I would have changed, and things about how I have walked this road that I would have done differently. The last two years have brought me both great joy, but WLS has also given me some sadness too. But that’s another story for another day My weight seems to fluctuate between 168 and 174 lbs depending on how many gym visits I can get in, and my recent blood tests showed up great though I do need a B12 injection at some point. I’ve been cut loose by the Bariatric hospital now as they can only look after me for two years, and my ongoing aftercare will be handled by my doctor now, though happily I get on really well with the very lovely Specialist nurse who has seen me from day one who is really keen to stay in touch and we are going to go out for coffee every so often My sparkly tee shirt buying addiction has abated a little and I actually refused a chance to go shopping yesterday. I know how mad is that? I did spend £80 on a pink shirt last week but that was in a lame attempt to cheer myself up. It failed to last more than a moment or two but it is a nice shirt LOL. The gym is going great and my musculature and strength are increasing. I’ve been staying away from home a lot the last month or so and that has meant not being able to train as often as I would like though perversely this seems to have helped rather than hindered my progress. Maybe I was trying too hard I don’t know but I’m lifting heavier just lately. A national women’s magazine did an article on Val’s perspective as the partner of a WLS patient. It’s a positive WLS story for a change even though it makes me look like a plonker and as we’ve already established I need no help with that LOL. The magazine changed what Val had said to make it more saleable to their readers and to be honest she had forgotten all about the article as it was written before recent event ran over us. They were supposed to let us know when it was going out and give her final say on the copy but they didn’t and so Val didn’t get the chance to pull the story. It rambles on about us getting married soon which is a little embarrassing in light of her walking out for a week a couple of weeks ago but it is something we were considering, it just doesn’t seem like an option just now LOL So two years out and it’s been an interesting ride. Highs and lows, new and old, before and afters etc etc. I made a new me but right now I wish I had the old me back for a while
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Rep Power: 0 ![]() Funding: N/A Gender: Female | Brilliant Karl, my Angel. I'm one week out from this time last week and already feeling huge benefits and feeling very positive about my future and improved health prospects... It's so worth it... is my motto already! Love and hugs xxx |
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Rep Power: 1759 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Consultant: Mr Ammori Funding: NHS Surgery Type: Gastric Bypass Surgery Date: 4th October 2010 Height: 5' 4" Gender: Female Start Weight: 340lb Goal Weight: 140lb Goal Date: A.S.A.P. BMI Information: | Fantastic job Karl...I cant imagine being 2 years out in the same way I couldnt imagine being 6 stone lighter but here I am I know exactly what you mean about not really being bothered if you made it through or not, I felt the same at many points on my journey! I dont agree with you not taking any credit for what you have achieved....the surgeons gave you the chance for a life and you grabbed it with both hands. You truly are an inspiration....deffinately so for this Fat Lass from Manchester! I cant help but feel you are a little blue at the moment, if thats the case I hope it passes soon, if Im wrong I apologise! Well done hun....keep up the great work!! Lots of love to the slim bloke from Manchester XX |
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Rep Power: 143 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Consultant: Dr Ammori Funding: NHS Surgery Type: Bypass Surgery Date: 16TH Nov 09 Height: 6' 0" Gender: Male Start Date: 16/11/09 Start Weight: 434lb Current Weight: 188lb Goal Weight: 197lb BMI Information: Start BMI: 58.9 Current BMI: 25.5 Goal BMI: 26.7 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 246lb Weight to Lose: -9lb % Lost: 56.68% %EWL: 98.2% | Well done mate what a great achievement and story 1 i can relate to fully being a bloke. elastic jeans buying more clothes than i need etc etc, keep the faith you are truely an inspiration to all pre and post op. |
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Rep Power: 724 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Consultant: Weight Loss Surgery Group Funding: Private Surgery Type: Gastric Band Surgery Date: 25th April 2009 Height: 5' 10" Gender: Female Goal Date: Goal ach'd!!! | Ah Karl, how come you want the old you back? Fanastic post but I sense more than a tinge of sadness - hope things are ok and thanks for sharing x |
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Rep Power: 0 ![]() Funding: N/A Gender: Female | What a story Karl and thanks so much for sharing it today. You have achieved so much. I also sense a little sadness at the mo. but I guess most really good things in life come with some sort of cost. No one can take away all that you have worked so hard for. Von |
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Rep Power: 0 ![]() Funding: N/A Gender: Male | Nice but honest review of your post-op experinces matey. I can so relate to some of the points you raised, especially the way that some pre-op acquaintances see a different "you". I have a close family member who "sees" me in quite a different light, but as far as I'm concerned I'm still generally the old me. I'm telling myself it is not my problem and that folk need to see me as I am now... like it or lump it. There is no way that I'm going back to the old me, but I think I can see why you might on occasion wish you could. Look forward, there is so much more to see and do than you could possibly have hoped for 2 years ago. |
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| Forum Master Big an Bouncy's Profile Albums Big an Bouncy's Photo Gallery Join Date: 17th August, 2008 Location: Maghull Liverpool
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Rep Power: 1003 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Consultant: mr kerrigan Funding: NHS Surgery Type: Bypass Surgery Date: 21.2.2011! Height: 5' 5" Gender: Female Start Date: 09.2.2011 Start Weight: 267lb Current Weight: 197lb Goal Weight: 170lb Goal Date: Christmas 2011 BMI Information: Start BMI: 44.4 Current BMI: 32.8 Goal BMI: 28.3 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 70lb Weight to Lose: 27lb % Lost: 26.22% %EWL: 59.6% | Karl and John,they are missing the old you,they were used to.It must be as hard for them as us getting used to the new you.You have probably got more confidence,changed the way you dressed etc.Relationships can change,my husband is quite a jealous guy and Im watching out for when ive lost weight how he reacts.Im confident and outgoing fat or not,never have trouble conversing with anyone,whereas he is bad in new company. Sorry things have been a bit off at home Karl,dont know if you have mentioned it somewhere else and I missed it or its private.Either way keep the faith mate.Maz x |
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| Really Likes to post ![]() ![]() hsmel's Profile Albums hsmel's Photo Gallery Join Date: 5th September, 2010 Location: Berkshire
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Rep Power: 417 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Consultant: Shaw Somers Funding: Private Surgery Type: Bypass Surgery Date: 21st September Height: 5' 8" Gender: Female Start Date: every day for 22 years!! Start Weight: 250lb Current Weight: 152lb Goal Weight: 160lb Goal Date: a year would be good! BMI Information: Start BMI: 38 Current BMI: 23.1 Goal BMI: 24.3 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 98lb Weight to Lose: -8lb % Lost: 39.2% %EWL: 113.7% | Karl I think you are feeling a bit down at the moment. However your story is one of great inspiration to many of us who are behind you on our journeys. The before and after pics of you truly show a changed man!! Perhaps your friends miss the joker of the pack, the drinker and the life and soul of the party???? Those are the comments I am having already and I am not that far out. I was that person - but I dont want her back!! To be honest I was like that to cover up the fact that I really did not like myself much - so I drank copiously, partied hard and was always good at jokes (often at my own expense). Perhaps your story is completely different but hey we all have different stories to tell both pre and post op - but we do change it is inevitable. Just look at your avatar pic you look fab. No wonder your specialist nurse is up for coffee every week . . . think there would be a few more in the queue given half a chance ![]()
__________________ Weight 17stone 12lb Pre op diet 21/9 17stone 0lb ![]() -12lb29/9 post op 16 stone 8lb -8lb5/10 16stone 0lb -8lb12/10 15stone 11lb - 3lb19/10 15 stone 10lb -1lb26/10 15 stone 7lb -3lb2/11 15 stone 4lb -3lb9/11 15 stone 0 lb ![]() - 4lb16/11 14 stone 12lb -2lbStarting two weekly weigh ins . . . 7/12/10 14 stone 3lb ![]() ![]() - 9lb 21/12/10 13 stone 11 lb ![]() ![]() -6lb 4/1/11 13 stone 7 lb -4lb 18/1/11 13 stone 3 lb -4lb ![]() ![]() ![]() 1/2/11 12 stone 12lb -5 lb ![]() ![]() YAY INTO THE 12'S!!!15/2/11 12stone 8lb -4lb still ![]() ![]() 1/3/11 12stone 6lb -2lb (only a lb a week but I can live with that!) 15/3/11 12 stone 2lb -4lb ![]() ![]() ![]() 09/04/11 11stone 13lb - 3lb ![]() ![]() ![]() 21/04/11 11 stone 11lb - 2lb ![]() 25/5/11 11 stone 9 lb still losing!! 6/6/11 11stone 6lb ![]() ![]() 26/8/11 10stone 12lb ![]() |
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| Forum Master ![]() ![]() Mixman's Profile Albums Mixman's Photo Gallery Join Date: 20th June, 2009 Location: Sheffield
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Rep Power: 1095 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Consultant: Dr Ackroyd Funding: NHS Surgery Type: Sleeve Gastrectomy Surgery Date: 30th June 2009 Height: 5' 10" Gender: Male Start Date: 20th June Start Weight: 445lb Current Weight: 210lb Goal Weight: 210lb Goal Date: April 26th 2010 BMI Information: Start BMI: 63.8 Current BMI: 30.1 Goal BMI: 30.1 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 235lb Weight to Lose: 0lb % Lost: 52.81% %EWL: 86.6% | Great read Karlos. One thing I'm maybe aware of is that before the op, I wasn't a threat to anyone as my confidence was low so I was just bubbly Mickie. Luckily I've kept my sense of humour but sored in confidence. Maybe it's this that people don't like? Anyway mate, keep up the great work and I hope recent events take a turn for the better. You're a fantastic ambassador for WLS |
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Rep Power: 0 ![]() Funding: N/A Gender: Female | Karl... you are so lovely and warm, when I met you at Salford, I thought to myself... that lovely man has everything and more. You are one of my inspirations and I'm thinking of you. Love and hugs precious xxx |
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Rep Power: 514 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Consultant: Mr Li Funding: NHS Surgery Type: by pass on 5/10/10 by Mr Li Surgery Date: 5/10/2010 Height: 5' 9" Start Date: Who knows. Pre op ?23/7/10 Start Weight: 299lb Current Weight: 225lb Goal Weight: 196lb Goal Date: 18 months time BMI Information: Start BMI: 44.1 Current BMI: 33.2 Goal BMI: 28.9 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 74lb Weight to Lose: 29lb % Lost: 24.75% %EWL: 56.8% | Karl, thanks for sharing your feelings etc. It's always the last thing that you say to the doctor as an aside that is often the most significant. I hope that you and Viv will soon be able to settle down and be comfortable with the new you. I think that we will all have changes in our personalities etc to contend with, just as we did when we hit puberty as all major and minor events help to mould us into the people we are. Give my love to the specialist nurse when you next meet up for coffee. Sending you lots of love and hugs. Rebirthxx
__________________ Rebirthxx http://www.wlsurgery.com/usercp.php ![]() Pre-op measurements w48.5", B54 3/14", H50.5", TH54 3/4",LT28 1/4", RT27,5" Neckline18" RA16 1/4", LA16 1/2", Calves 19 3/14" 20/12/10 = 28 inches lost 8/2/11 = 4 3/4 inches lost 10/3/11 = 3 3/4 inches lost 5/4/11 =7 inches lost 3/5/11 = 3 3/4 inches lost 24/5/11 = 3 inches lost 5/7/11 = 4 1/2 inches lost Total inch loss to date = 62 1/4" Weight loss for May=0.6kgs Weight loss for June = 0kgs Weight loss for July = 2.2kgs 6/8/11 = 95.4kgs |
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Rep Power: 969 ![]() Funding: NHS Surgery Type: RNYGB Height: 5' 6" Gender: Female Start Weight: 299lb Current Weight: 162lb Goal Weight: 154lb BMI Information: Start BMI: 48.3 Current BMI: 26.1 Goal BMI: 24.9 Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 137lb Weight to Lose: 8lb % Lost: 45.82% %EWL: 94.7% | Inspirational as always! Hugs to you too.... everythings so raw right now, you'll have the life you want again. x |
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Rep Power: 101 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Consultant: Mr El Hassani Funding: NHS Surgery Type: Gastric bypass Surgery Date: 25/08/2011 Height: 6' 1" Gender: Male Start Date: 03/08/2011 Start Weight: 413lb Current Weight: 357lb BMI Information: Start BMI: 54.5 Current BMI: 47.1 Goal BMI: Statistics: Total Weight Loss: 56lb % Lost: 13.56% %EWL: 25% | Thanks Karl as a pre opper I found your story inspirational and look forward to writing my story two years after my op so thanks again |
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