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Kayy's band diary 2015

*kayy*

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Hi
I've never ever kept a diary before but thought now would be an ideal time to start. I've posted a few times so some may already know part of my story but here goes:

Weight 16.5 stone
Height 5ft 3
Bmi 40.7
My names kay, i am 37 yrs old and mother of five gorgeous kids aged 20, 16, 14, 3 and 17 months. My weight has been an issue since my late teens. I had a very happy active childhood, went to ballet.tap and jazz classes and appeared in west end theatre productions I also swam competitively for my county. Weight became a issue once I decided to be a rebel and and stopped all classes and training. Like most I've tried every diet going, taken prescription diet pills and also tried slimming tablets. In 2007 I managed to get my weight down from 14.5 stone to 11 stone, but within a year I had piled the majority back on. I've tried exercise, had a personal trainer and been under a dietician since 2007. I was 17.5 stone at my heaviest and since late 2008 the lowest my weight has been is 16 stone, just can't seem to get it any lower.
In 2009 I was diagnosed with a underactive thyroid.

Forward to November 2014 and after months of being in pain I was operated on by a lovely surgeon called Dr Khan at whittington hospital london and had my gallbladder removed. After surgery Dr Khan and he's colleagues came to talk to me about my weight amongst other things (which is all a bit hazy because of the meds and pain relief) and asked if I had ever considered wls, I had but knew I would never be able to afford it and my doctor had never really been much help when I saw her about my weight.
Two weeks after my op I received two letters one a appt for the group education class and the other a appt to see the consultant.

January 16th I attended the group education class which was basically a PowerPoint presentation and question and answer discussion on surgery options, pros and cons of each procedure and brief rundown on diet before and after surgery. And also filled out a questionnaire on my eating habits.
January 26th I saw Dr Khan who after talking with in great detail with about my weight, when it became a problem, the things I've done to try and tackle my weight etc said that I meet the criteria for wls surgery and as I have had a weight management plan in place for so long it was just a case of funding being organised and I will be put on the waiting list and can expect surgery in about 3 months. Waiting on a appt now for the camera test.
All happened very fast and ive been a bit shell shocked since Monday and very emotional. Feel very grateful and looking forward to life again. Can't stop thinking about how different things will be for me and my kids.
2015 is defo going to be life changing for me :)))))))
 
I've just read it back and full of typo's and rather long lol.
I'm also worried that ive not chosen the right procedure for me :/
 
Hi Kay Welcome, I look forward to following your story :) You are bound to be apprehensive, we all were I'm banded, and my only regret is that I waited so long I love my band, its hard work, not a quick fix, but it suits me & my lifestyle x x x

I think it's my fear of failure more than anything!
I glimpsed through your diary earlier, looking forward to reading it properly later xx
 
And i love my sleeve....its a difficult one, trust your surgeon....if you are really concerned then do some research and put a lot of thought in to it before committing yourself, its a life changing decision in many respects.
 
I'm not sure I can change my mind now as funding has been sorted and I am on the list for a band.
 
I was a bit the same Kay was advise a band early on but then bypass lol its a mind bender.... just know how both ops work and which would be best for you...either way you have to make it work for YOU :) i certainly don't regret my band the NHS funded mine and was fitted almost a year ago now..... just over 8 stone down so not too bad... yes hard work, but isn't every diet we've tried... its down to you ultimately your determination and your desire to succeed .... sounds like your in the right mind space too :) i wish you well..... dont stop researching... make sure its right for you hunni and grab that chance with both hands an GO FOR IT x x x
 
Thank you, it's lovely to be able to come on here for support from people who have or are going through similar. Nice to meet you all xx
 
Got a letter today stating that I am on the waiting list! It's official :) so happy I could burst!
Feel like since my education group meeting I've become a little obsessed, losing weight is all I can seem to think about. Still feeling very nervous over wether ive chosen the right procedure or not but I'm sure that is more to do with my fear of failure which has been a big problem of mine since as long as I can remember! Guess now is the time to get my mind focused and keep telling myself that I CAN do this!!!
 
Phoned the hospital on Tuesday to find out how much longer I have to wait and was told I should have been given a date by the 2nd of March (guessing this is to do with deadline targets??) and if I haven't received a date by next Tuesday to call back again! Feel like a child waiting for Christmas lol, was told to maintain a stable weight until surgery but I am itching to get started on the LSD and start losing (I can lose but the problems keeping it off). Hoping my date comes through soon!!
 
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Hope the postman brings you something nice very soon LOL it is very much like waiting for Christmas..... and trust me you will think of nothing for the next year about food and losing it and dieting......exercise...protein.... oh the list is endless LOL it becomes an obsession :) fortunately everyone here is the same, talking to those not in same boat must yawn and switch off LOL but honestly it does take over your life !!!! i really hope you hear soon gl with it all x x x x
 
Hope the postman brings you something nice very soon LOL it is very much like waiting for Christmas..... and trust me you will think of nothing for the next year about food and losing it and dieting......exercise...protein.... oh the list is endless LOL it becomes an obsession :) fortunately everyone here is the same, talking to those not in same boat must yawn and switch off LOL but honestly it does take over your life !!!! i really hope you hear soon gl with it all x x x x
You must be my lucky charm hahaha, got my DATE today!!!!! The 4th of June :) not as soon as I was expecting but I'm absolutely over the moon :) :)
 
Great news, I'm sure the time will fly by

Lynn x
 
Hey Kayy, you got your date! I'm so happy for you yay! :) It must a relieve now you can plan your life until then...and don't forget that time will fly to don't waste a minute. Do you have any appointment before the surgery? keep us posted.
 
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