Well I have to say everyone that i ha dmy op last August and used to love nothingbettter than having a good drink, i still enjoy going out and having a laugh is till av a drink but on a much smaller scale i know its empty calories but it is nice to do it now and again and like i say it son a much smaller scale than it was, so everyone needs to let their hair down now and again. I only drank vodka and diet coke before the op i would once have had many of them and shots now i have water and 4 vodka and diet cokes at the most, thats from 7pm til 1am which isnt bad AND DANCING INBETWEEN, so i don;t feel guilty, it lets of steam and thats bout once every 4 weeks if i'm lucky. xx I am really proud of the weight i have lost but its easy to loose yourself and your identity by becoming obsessed with it, i have seen that happen too many times to too many people they loose weight and their lives and become the most miserable and nasty people, i do not wish to be like that. THis is what frightens me most. xx