krissy123
New Member
Hi long story, recently my husbands step mum died funeral tomorrow. His step mum got a new partner and moved away. 20 years with new partner, not married big issues as no will her brother ( estranged) gets the estate and has asked partner to leave house in six weeks. She died due to malnutrition had a band seems was restricted, drank to much due to an armed robbery in st Lucia last year which was very violent and she never got over- band plus excessive drinking led to liver failure and infection. Now new partner and daughter want hubbies co operation to fight brother and hospital over band. They don't know I've had a bypass, I feel that she should have consulted hospital about restriction, but didn't due to fear about putting on weight. Just wanted advice about what hospital appointments/ advice banners get, I feel she was not in the right place mentally and the hospital was not to blame, advice please