OMG it just brings the reality of it home, I have three children 7, 4 and 1 and worry that I am the fattest in teh playground for their sake, my middle child said to me at the swiming baths last week whilst my eldest was having a lesson, why dont you take us swimming all the other mums do, my reply was I will when I am thin she said OK !
just shows that allthough your kids love you unconditionally and you them they still see what teh world see's even at 4 !
so very sad xx