tink75
New Member
Hi all, I really, REALLY need some advice. I'm sure most of you know I suffered serious complications after my surgery and ended up in hospital for a month. I now have many unanswered questions about the complications that are really messing with my head. I know for definate there were 3 HUGE mistakes that each endangered my life, I am now wondering whether to have the matter investigated. My surgon can not stop appologising and says that he's so glad to have me still with us (alive).
I'm really not sure how to get past this - my family are all really cross and want the situation looked in too - I'm confused and don't really know what I want. I do know that I have been off work for 3 months now and I am still really weak after the muscle loss in intensive care, however, the surgery has worked and I am 5 stone lighter.
I would like answers as to how these mistakes can happen but don't know if it will make me even more emotional and messed up.
Please give me your opinion as to what you would do. Thank you so much for your help (i really need it)
I'm really not sure how to get past this - my family are all really cross and want the situation looked in too - I'm confused and don't really know what I want. I do know that I have been off work for 3 months now and I am still really weak after the muscle loss in intensive care, however, the surgery has worked and I am 5 stone lighter.
I would like answers as to how these mistakes can happen but don't know if it will make me even more emotional and messed up.
Please give me your opinion as to what you would do. Thank you so much for your help (i really need it)