Sorry this is a bit off topic Mrs Q.
Caren, there are plenty of people in this world who will berate you for 'not having control' or something similar. If we COULD we WOULD. I am sure you have tried loads of routes to lose weight prior to putting yourself through the assault course on route to surgery.
This is not an easy option, it isn't chosen because you can't be bothered to count calories.
Ok, so we are struggling to deal with excess weight - but don't beat yourself up, being overweight, fat, obese, chunky, chubby - or whatever other label people want to stick on us, doesn't mean you are not beautiful, kind, funny, supportive, caring, amazing, productive, special and important!!
Sent via telephonic magic!