Mixman
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Guy at work the other day, not seen him for a bit. He's been on Jury Service and Holiday. He say's to me the other day. "Bloomin hell Mick, you're doing fantastic"
Then later in the day says to me "You've lost too much now, you need to start eating more now"
Now he wasn't being nasty, he was genuine. It's not like he's jealous as he's a fairly fit guy and a number of years older.
I did tell him I was still classed as obese. He obviously has not seen me undressed and seen the saggy bits.
Has anyone else been approached as people are worried about them?
I guess because now you can see my cheekbones etc, compared to what I used to be like, it is drastic! Does it just need time for other people to adjust as well as yourself?
Then later in the day says to me "You've lost too much now, you need to start eating more now"
Now he wasn't being nasty, he was genuine. It's not like he's jealous as he's a fairly fit guy and a number of years older.
I did tell him I was still classed as obese. He obviously has not seen me undressed and seen the saggy bits.
Has anyone else been approached as people are worried about them?
I guess because now you can see my cheekbones etc, compared to what I used to be like, it is drastic! Does it just need time for other people to adjust as well as yourself?