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Lilacglittergirl
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I last saw him 'in the flesh' when I visited last March. The weather was terrible (freezing cold and pouring with rain) and he had food poisoning. We sat indoor feeling miserable watching the election of the new Pope on TV, it was that bad! It was on this visit when I made up my mind to have WLS. He has been following my progress on Skype. He'll be over here in a few weeks. He likes me curvy so fingers crossed I've still got something going on ... I was this size when we met nearly 20 years ago.
ceecie74
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Oh HOW EXCITING!! I love a good old long distance relationship!! Trust me Lilac, you've DEF GOT SOMETHING GOING ON GIRL!!!
Lol has he always lived in Spain? Do you want to follow him out there? Xxx
Intrigued.....
ceecie74
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Oh urgh!! Don't you just hate that moment when you have to ask for the bloody extension!!!!!
NEVER AGAIN!!! And I def won't sneer if I hear someone else asking for it!!!!!!
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chrisa
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I once asked for it as I got on the plane we were one of the first people on the stewardess came back to me before thye said fasten your belts, I thought she had forgotten so struggled on and got it fastened with out after all that was tad tight but its not on long really didn't need the bugger was determined nit to ask again infront of all the folks haha we are daft aren't we. xx
chrisa
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I was lucky enough to have mine on th NHS HOWEVER I had no comorbidetes at the start of the journey then ot turned out I had sleep apnoea which I got a CPAP machine to treat it and after losing 5 stone the machine went back. I had no other issues than this but that was only sorted out 7months before my op and then few months after when I was ok without it. I started at the grand weight of 24ST 11 LB I got to my lowest weight last January of 14st 5, however in the middle of the year it went back to 14 st 10 -13 then the last 4 weeks it went to 15st I dint want to go back there then last week put 3lb on and 2 lb on gain this week. I was so cross with myself have really gone back to basics and listening to my body. I need to be back under that 15 st. I am really working at it had 2 really good days lets hope I can make it through the week and lose most of what I put on would be thrilled with 5 lb but can see that coming off in the one chunk. I thought I had lost this week was mortified when it said nutha 2 on. I WILL DO IT. I AM NOT HUNGRY, MY BODY DOESN;T NEED IT I have to keep telling myself haha xx folks will think I am a total nut case.
annemieke_loves
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I was so ashamed last time(luckily my husband and kids weren't with me) I pretended I was pregnant, I know so awful, but I could've died of shame :-(
Lilacglittergirl
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Oh HOW EXCITING!! I love a good old long distance relationship!! Trust me Lilac, you've DEF GOT SOMETHING GOING ON GIRL!!!
Lol has he always lived in Spain? Do you want to follow him out there? Xxx
Intrigued.....
Hee hee! Thanks Ceecie! Bless you for saying.
I'd known him for a few years and he'd chat me up constantly but I thought he was a bit 'odd' and made my excuses. Some years later we lost contact and under pressure from friends I reluctantly joined a very obscure dating agency called 'Plump Partners'. All you got for your money was a phone number, first name, location, age and occupation. Again after further pressure from friends I made a call to Mike, SW London, 38, musician. It was him! He'd joined the same obscure dating agency looking for a curvy lady. As I say, that was nearly 20 years ago. He left London to live in Spain a couple of years later. He is odd, I was so right, but OK. I don't want to live there and he wouldn't want me to either. He is too much of an independent spirit ... And he'd drive me mad!!
Georgie163
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Wow Lilac what a story and how romantic that the man off the agency turned out to be him! So you will be having a big reveal moment when you see him - can't wait to hear about the reaction you get. Will you still be curvy enough for curvy loving Mike x
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ceecie74
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Ah Lilac....I went through the whole dating site for BBW's and all I met were serial womanisers!! Oddly, my sister emigrated to New Zealand and I randomly met one of her work colleagues a week later. He didn't like BBW's, had never dated a woman over a size 10...... but fancied me rotten LOL!!! He's been totally devoted ever since.
I'm a great believer in FATE, I'm so excited for you, particularly as your confidence must be soaring after your recent loss....you are going to have FUN!!!! xxx
I'm a great believer in FATE, I'm so excited for you, particularly as your confidence must be soaring after your recent loss....you are going to have FUN!!!!
xxx
Georgie163
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Sounds like you got a keeper there and he gave you a cute pet name Ceecie! But what BBW? X
2nd timer
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Ha I was going through a nasty divorce 15 years ago n never wanted to see another man again. I was basically bullied by a mate to go out with her n her partner n baz was there. It was instant smitten fir both of us and I knew that night I would be with him fir the rest if my life!!! He's stood by me through thick n thin n were more in love each day. Bang goes my theory of hating men lol we had bought a house together in two months n I'd changed my name via deed poll n married a year later in Sri Lanka. Things do happen fir a reason ceecie. I would never in a million years thought this would happen fate
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we had bought a house together in two months n I'd changed my name via deed poll n married a year later in Sri Lanka. Things do happen fir a reason ceecie. I would never in a million years thought this would happen fate previous bander, now awaiting by pass or sleeve this year.
ceecie74
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ceecie74
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Ha I was going through a nasty divorce 15 years ago n never wanted to see another man again. I was basically bullied by a mate to go out with her n her partner n baz was there. It was instant smitten fir both of us and I knew that night I would be with him fir the rest if my life!!! He's stood by me through thick n thin n were more in love each day. Bang goes my theory of hating men lol
previous bander, now awaiting by pass or sleeve this year.
That's a WIKED story!!! Lovely!! X
2nd timer
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Big Beautiful Woman!!! Lol .....I was a size 28/30 when I met him!!
You are really beautiful ceecie , inside and out babes x
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Lilacglittergirl
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Couldn't agree more! xx
Georgie163
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What a lovely story 2nd Timer and Ceecie you are beautiful xx
I met my partner about 6 months after separating from my husband. He saw my profile picture on facebook as we had a friend in common so I guess you could also say we met online. We got chatting, hooked up, bought a house together and with our 4 children (he 2 girls, me 2 boys) plus four cats and a puppy we all live very happily. He has shown me nothing but love, loyalty and adoration. We are like glue, hold hands in bed, watching tv, I have no doubts of the love. But I met him when I was a size 10/12 and I'm now literally twice the woman. I feel like he has ended up with a dud deal but I also know this is my problem not his and my insecurities. I wish he met me from fat to thin rather than thin to fat and hopefully thin again if that makes sense? And I do wonder in my heart if he'd have ever pursued me that way around but guess I shall never know! X
I met my partner about 6 months after separating from my husband. He saw my profile picture on facebook as we had a friend in common so I guess you could also say we met online. We got chatting, hooked up, bought a house together and with our 4 children (he 2 girls, me 2 boys) plus four cats and a puppy we all live very happily. He has shown me nothing but love, loyalty and adoration. We are like glue, hold hands in bed, watching tv, I have no doubts of the love. But I met him when I was a size 10/12 and I'm now literally twice the woman. I feel like he has ended up with a dud deal but I also know this is my problem not his and my insecurities. I wish he met me from fat to thin rather than thin to fat and hopefully thin again if that makes sense? And I do wonder in my heart if he'd have ever pursued me that way around but guess I shall never know! X
annemieke_loves
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Ha I was going through a nasty divorce 15 years ago n never wanted to see another man again. I was basically bullied by a mate to go out with her n her partner n baz was there. It was instant smitten fir both of us and I knew that night I would be with him fir the rest if my life!!! He's stood by me through thick n thin n were more in love each day. Bang goes my theory of hating men lol
previous bander, now awaiting by pass or sleeve this year.
Amazing story! Things do happen for a reason! I was 19 when I came to the uk for a 5 month work placement, I met this guy in may 2004,weeks after starting my placement, and we were married by September 2004. Instead of staying 5 months, I've been here 10 years now, still very happily married and we have 2 beautiful daughters
Georgie163
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Where are you from originally Anne? Do you have family here? X
2nd timer
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My baz met me a size 22/24 and his ex was a supermodel look alike. He lived me for me, not my fat. I had comfort eaten for too long. I was paranoid he wouldn't like me after the date we first met. I thought I was going crazy thinking I well fancied him. But he did, I went from fatso to a trim 14/16 and then back to the weight iwas when I first met him. He's supported me whatever my size. S my guess is he saw through the size n loved you for who you are xx
previous bander, now awaiting by pass or sleeve this year.
