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If you could....

Big an Bouncy

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live one day in your life again which day would that be?
 
That's a fun question. Hmmmm....

Without a doubt it would be my wedding day, with the rushing around and nerves of that day I didn't truly get to enjoy it. Plus some family/friends that were there that day are no longer with us so it would be good to see/hug, etc all of them again. It was such a special day that seems a bit of a haze now 11 years later so I would love to be in that moment again. Bliss...;)
 
I would rewind to the morning of a family get together in 1983 and go out anywhere instead of being there that afternoon.

My life would be so much better if I had done that, I would not have to live with the shame and self loathing I feel even today.

 
mine would be the day i gave birth to my son, as it took so long to get him with suffering from pcos, that i needed various treatments,intervention to get him that when i had him it was like it was not real i had severe post natal dep and baby blues, because of my hormones i rejected him through no fault of my own, every day i feel guilty bad about rejecting him back then, i would to like to re live that now with out the bad hormones that effected how i felt towards him back that day, as hes the most beautifull little boy hes 8 now and i love him so much.

liz

sorry that was hard 4 me to type, bye
 
i would go back to the day i met my psycho-ex, and never ever meet him. without going through that relationship, I believe I would have been a more confident and secure person, and more able to lose weight naturally. I also believe I would be healthier as stress contributes to my problems. I would carry less guilt, and regretfullness, and be a more trusting and loving person.
 
I'd go back to the day I had my first weight loss surgery and not have it as I've spent 10 years suffering because of it and I was able to lose a huge amount of weight prior to the surgery with slimming world but after surgery the list of what I could n't eat was so huge that dieting was hopless really cause I could only eat all the sloppy stuff that goes down easily. I think I would n't be as heavy as I am not if I had n't have had it
 
I would go back to the day I was told my dad was dying of cancer, I was 12 years old, I would hug him tight and tell him I loved him because at that age I did not understand he would be gone forever...xx
 
I would love to go back to 15th October 1994 Which was the day I got married to my wonderfull husband, It was the best day of my life and although at the time we had a fabulous day, it was very very low budget and we had no money at all.nearly 15 years later, we are so much better off, and I would love to walk down the isle of a church with lots of fresh flowers and then have a lovely honey moon, in a log cabin, somewhere really cold and snowy.
 
I would go back to the day I was told my dad was dying of cancer, I was 12 years old, I would hug him tight and tell him I loved him because at that age I did not understand he would be gone forever...xx

Charliegirl, That is so sad, I have actually got a tear in my eye now.
 
This isn't a fun one for me sorry.

I would go back to the last time i ever saw my father. He was crying, and hurrying me out of the car. I would have hugged him and told him i loved him because 4 days later, he killed himself. My one regret in life is not ever telling my father i loved him.
 
This isn't a fun one for me sorry.

I would go back to the last time i ever saw my father. He was crying, and hurrying me out of the car. I would have hugged him and told him i loved him because 4 days later, he killed himself. My one regret in life is not ever telling my father i loved him.
God your right this isn`t a happy time, very brave of u to post about it on here. xxx
 
This isn't a fun one for me sorry.

I would go back to the last time i ever saw my father. He was crying, and hurrying me out of the car. I would have hugged him and told him i loved him because 4 days later, he killed himself. My one regret in life is not ever telling my father i loved him.

i also miss my dad, i didnt loose him in the same way you did, but im sure he knew in his heart that you loved him very much.

liz x :hug99:
 
This isn't a fun one for me sorry.

I would go back to the last time i ever saw my father. He was crying, and hurrying me out of the car. I would have hugged him and told him i loved him because 4 days later, he killed himself. My one regret in life is not ever telling my father i loved him.

Erin thats really really sad, HUGS to you. I lost my father to a brain tumor 4 years ago and it was horrendous but at least I had time to prepare myself for what was going to happen. To lose him suddenly with no last words or hugs would have haunted me for life.
 
I would rewind to the morning of a family get together in 1983 and go out anywhere instead of being there that afternoon.

My life would be so much better if I had done that, I would not have to live with the shame and self loathing I feel even today.

Gosh that sounds awful Cazbandy
xx
 
Erin thats really really sad, HUGS to you. I lost my father to a brain tumor 4 years ago and it was horrendous but at least I had time to prepare myself for what was going to happen. To lose him suddenly with no last words or hugs would have haunted me for life.

Thanks Alia, i'm really sorry to hear about your dad too. :(

And it does still haunt me.
 
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