just want too get christmas out of the way

[andy12861]

hi all i really didnt know if i should start this thread but i have.it's really hard for me to put down on hear how i feel im a 47yo man i am trying to get on with my life after my op but it really is so hard.in the past ive lost everything i held dear to me i really dont want to burden you all with it here. im just not looking forward to christmas this year between one thing and another im feeling fed up i dont smoke i dont drink the only thing i did was eat and i cant do that anymore i hope you all dont think im a big wuss i just want the next two weeks out of the way so i can start a new year how i mean carry on and maybe next christmas might be better than this christmas well here's hoping. goognight all hope you all have a great christmas and a happy new year

 

[j.u.s.t.l.i.z.]

he andy just treat it like any other day !! you can get through this i know u can !

liz x

 

[ditzyangeluk]

I don't 'do' Xmas at all - no tree, no decs, no xmas dinner or anything. I firmly believe that Xmas is for children & I have never had that longed-for child so don't want to be reminded of it.

Just remember, it really is just another day & is over in no time.

Hang in there &, if you need a shoulder, mine are still broad enough to take it! Feel free to burden away - just pm me any time.

Hang in there - this too shall pass!

 

[hopelesscase]

Hi Andy
I think we put ourselves under so much pressure regarding christmas and like the others have said it is just another day. Im not a religous person but feel that the true meaning of christmas is lost these days and its now all about food, presents and parties.
Take comfort from knowing that others feel as you do about it and look forward to your healthier future as your weight continues to drop.
take care
HC

 

[wobbles]

Hi Andy,

I'm sorry you're feeling so fed up. I can empathise with you, and have not liked christmas for a lot of years now. I don't do the decorations, the tree, the fuss, and i hate how commercialised it is. I am however, looking forward to seeing family, and seeing my son open his presents. I'm sorry you're lost all those dear to you.

I too know what you mean about giving up food. I used to drink, eat and smoke. Now i can't drink or eat, and i only have two cigs a day. I'm wondering what i have left FOR ME!!

Anyway, if you need to get things off your chest, we're here for you.

xx

 

[tesmaralda]

even though i l ove christams i can understand the other side of it the true meaning has been lost in so many peoples day and it is only another day.. There are always people here for our moans and groans and rants and raves and i don't think anyones sees its as being a burden, i am only ever at the end of a pm or an email. Wishing you all the best for the new year and the new you.

 

[andy12861]

thanks everyone it really is nice to know there are people out there who want to help thankyou.its like everyone says i'll take one day at a time its going to be rough this year but i'll get through it once again hope everone has a great christmas and a thinner new year

 

[phatgirl]

You too Andy & just think you start the new year with a new you! The holidays can be rough but you are not alone feeling that way. It is a time when you have lots of people to miss that you tend to dwell on what you don't have instead of what you do have. I have had my share of bad/sad holidays and I know where you are coming from.

Just count your best things this year and be thankful for them. Like your improved health, your weight loss so far, the fact that you were brave enough to do something this year to extend and enhance your life, and all your new friends here on minimins. By all the replies you have received I would think that it is a big number. Chin up and you will be fine and in the new year before you know it.

Nichole

 

[weight loss hopeful]

Hi Andy,

I can see where your coming from. Try not to let it get you too upset. It is just another day and need not be cause for such bad feelings. Try to focus on the good memories you have of your family members. You have weight loss and health improvements to look forward to. Keep your chin up and take care of yourself. Im here if you want to pm me too. R x