As topkat said, this can be a new starting point. It's not a bad thing to take a step back sometimes, to be able to look in and understand what's not been going so well, so you can adjust your approach.
While some of us are really lucky to achieve our targets quickly, I really think we need to put things into perspective. My provider says
generally a Gastric Band results in a 50% to 60% excess weight loss in 2 years. And a normal weight loss is 1-2 lbs a week. What it my consultant also said is that weight loss is not guaranteed. Success is dependent on lots of things such as the individuals approach and also external influences such as medical history/issues for example.
Do we look in and compare our progress to others rate of loss? Then get disappointed if its not working for us in the same way?
Mummy, when looking from the outside in, what would you say you could change to help your tool work better for you? Then what help do you think would be beneficial from us, the people around you, your provider ... Then ask/demand it!
We definitely are here to support you

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