Hi Mandie and Diana,
Ladies please do not stress out did you know that stress can hold weight on you too? Im nearly 6 weeks post op having had a gastric band and before my op I only managed to lose 6lbs, with some surgeons, especially mine, he really just wants to see your commitment to the future and that you are ready to work with your chosen surgery.
Since the the 10th of November when I started the pre-op diet I have now lost 30lbs. When I followed the low cal diet before the pre op this is what I had each day
Breakfast 125ml glass of orange juice, a coffee then an hour later 1 weetabix with milk which I left til it absorbed all the milk and it looked like a big portion (didnt want my mind to start thinking I was being deprived).
mid morning - coffee
Lunch 125ml glass of oj then an hour later tin of heinz veg soup or scotch broth I didnt have anything with it.
Afternoon - coffee
Dinner 1 chicken breast grilled with a sprinkle of those schwarz grill and sizzle herbs (yum) and a bag of steam fresh veg
Supper - Horlicks with left over milk.
Now it may sound crazy but I found the dieticians advice of only eating until you dont feel hungry anyore really weird but it worked as I always left something on the plate, she also told me to put my fork down between mouthfuls and to really just concentrate on eating and to become really aware of how I felt as soon as the hungry feeling went away I stopped eating.
I dont know if any of this is any use to you ladies, but I hope it can help, you have both made huge decisions to go ahead with surgery and you should be really proud of yourselves for taking control of your future, so you need to pull out your reasons from deep down inside and think of them, for me its because I want to have children, get married, feel fitter and healthier, go on holiday on a plane again to florida and not have to be shoehorned into the park rides, get a better job and numerous others, you got to keep the eye on the prize and as walt disney says "Keep moving forward!" Everyday is a new day!
Hugs,
Emma
xxxx