I think I've been snubbed because of my WLS

[SOON SLIM SUE]

As some of you know I am a dress maker, so I go on this dress making forum and get on pretty well with most of them. Anyway, someone started a thread about starting a weight watchers program. As they already knew I have lost a lot of weight (but I never said how or how much) they asked me to join them, and i said I would be delighted but I would have the advantage because I have had the surgery.
There was no answer to this, they have completely ignored me since.
Rotten so and so's, let them sit there and make their dresses for tweedle dum and tweedle dee.
This is the first time I have ever come across anything like this.

 

[Neen]

I'm so sorry to hear this Sue xxxx What a bunch of fairweather friends ! Their loss at the end of the day x

 

[yorkiegal]

they're probably just jealous.

 

[suepat10]

I am sorry to hear this Sue. Whether you'd had surgery or not, you're the same person xx

 

[suzz69uk]

hugs xxxx

 

[phatmomma]

Just shows you, jealousy and envy come in all shapes n sizes... Friends like that who needs enemies?

Btw, how is Erin doing? xx

 

[Katkit1]

Better off without them if thats their attitude Sue - at least you were being honest - and if they thought about it, they would be pleased that you had been so upfront and did`nt try and always win with an advantage!

Snobs!!! Pah pah pah








Love Kat x

 

[wencho]

its like a playground....would hate to see how they bring up children!!!!!!!

 

[Sarah Metcalf]

Wow that's shocking, people can be so strange, it's their loss xx

 

[magicbeans]

haha...laugh at them...fickle people got jealous!

 

[Lilyscent]

Its there loss and your better off without friends like that, sorry to hear how you have been treated hon xx

 

[SOON SLIM SUE]

Just shows you, jealousy and envy come in all shapes n sizes... Friends like that who needs enemies?

Btw, how is Erin doing? xx

Thanks for asking about Erin, she is doing great, she's down to a size 18/20, but she still won't weigh herself. she has a follow up ap at the hospital in may so I will update her ticker then.

 

[DeeKaulfers]

As some of you know I am a dress maker, so I go on this dress making forum and get on pretty well with most of them. Anyway, someone started a thread about starting a weight watchers program. As they already knew I have lost a lot of weight (but I never said how or how much) they asked me to join them, and i said I would be delighted but I would have the advantage because I have had the surgery.
There was no answer to this, they have completely ignored me since.
Rotten so and so's, let them sit there and make their dresses for tweedle dum and tweedle dee.
This is the first time I have ever come across anything like this.

It's funny the reactions you get some time. I have a tailor that I have used for yrs. I have gone in several times since my surgery to get things taken in and so on and one time about a month ago she says. "wow you are looking really good, what are you doing it's working well" and I figured I've been coming here for 4-5 yrs so I guess I'll tell her. So I tell her I had gastric bypass. She nervously say "oh yea" then walks away. Since thenive gotten maybe a hi and bye when I go in. So I stopped using her. I don't get how it's changed me as person for her to treat me so completely different now. Oh well her loss of ALOT of business.

Hugs Dee xoxoxo. Sent from my iPad using WLSurgery

 

[tranquil_butterfly]

Sorry that you have been treated so badly Sue. Being fat seems to be an excuse to bring out the worst prejudices in people and it seem to double when they get to know you have done something positive about it. I know it is hurting but that will pass. Huggs.

tranquil x

 

[Kevin1708]

Tossers ! Oppppppps sorry . . . Maybe they got the neddle ? Chin up hun x

 

[lisa x]

Hi Sue..

sorry to hear you have been snubbed..
folk are funny huh??
glad to hear Erin is doing well too...
how are you doing now sue ??
x x x

 

[Tracey ( eyore)]

sorry to hear you have experienced this, itis one of the reasons i keep quiet about surgery as i had some very close so called friends be rude to me about my surgery x

 

[Deets]

i wish this was a rare occurence, but its not. Lots of ignorant people out there. Rise above it hun x

 

[barbara18]

jealousy is a killer, if they were true friends they would be happy for you, their loss. xx

 

[wizzbang]

If it were me and I enjoyed the dressmakers forum I would question the lack of response to the post. Perhaps there has been a misunderstanding or something. Things aren't always as they first appear to be.
Probably some members of the site haven't even noticed that nobody has posted a response and are wondering why you aren't posting now.
Lynne x