Hi Sundown, I've no idea what his problem is. In recent years he's been the sort of bloke who'll find something to moan about if he can, does my head in sometimes. I'm sure you know the type - his way or the wrong way! I think he might be of the opinion that I'm taking the easy way out, he has no idea......
I have wondered if he prefers me the way I am as I have little confidence (last time I lost a lot of weight he seemed to struggle with my improved confidence.
Trying to be more positive, he has at least applied for a passport so he can come with me rather than me taking a friend.