Not been around a lot recently.........

[ricke17]

..........mainly due to the sudden death of my mum in February.

My RnY weight loss seems to have plateaued a bit and just cannot get under 18st although I look and feel good though.

Rick x

 

[brett30]

yea but ur looking great mr .. u have lost so much weight in person from your pics i seen a while back .... u looked normal yesterday i would never had passed u and thought oh he is a big guy .......

and did not like to mention yesterday about ur mum where everyone was .. sorry to hear about that mr must of been very hard for you cause would be for me ;o)

 

[ricke17]

Cheers Brett - I still look in the mirror and see a fat person and assume that everyone else see's the "fatty" too - I know I need to get over it but I just cannot.

And like you said, the scene is so fake and false and never even done the whole chub and chaser thing either. You and I seem to have the same taste in men too!

Cheers for the sentiments for mum. She was not only my mum but my best friend and although I am (I think) over her death it is only early days.

Good to finally meet you in person and look forward to catching up with you at the next meet and you MUST let me know when you get your date so Jenny and I can come visit ya and see you in those gorgeous net knickers!!

Rick x

 

[Mrs_CakeyBun]

So sorry to hear about your mum, its devestating to loose some one precious (((Rick)))

 

[brett30]

lol yea i will fella u will know my every move lol ....

i think ur looking great Mr .. and i know it will take time for mind to adjust to what u use to see in the mirror to whats there now ... but in all honesty i can not wait to get to where u are now ......

I'm same with my mum .. she is gay too .. so i find her more a friend too ..

I'm always here Mr ;o)

 

[ricke17]

Cheers Brett - it will be good to stay in touch since we are both gay and going thru this journey together albeit with me a few months ahead of ya!!

 

[waynetta]

I'm glad to see you posting again Rick and I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care chcuks. x

 

[tendersage]

Hi Rickie think you dropped out just before i joined, i still miss my mum 4 years on it does get easier but there will always be an ache for whats gone.

I had my bypass with Mr Mannur privately, and will eventually be in hommerton to have my gallbladder removed by him.

 

[j.u.s.t.l.i.z.]

welcome back to the forum ricke, sorry to hear about your mum.

best wishes

liz x

 

[tesmaralda]

sorry to hear about your mom Rickie, amd glad to see you posting again. xXx

 

[ricke17]

Cheers guys

 

[Lesleydb]

Hiya sorry to hear about your mum, it does get easier I lost my dad very suddenly 15 years ago and you dont ever really get over it just learn to live with it.
Take care :hug99::hug99:xx

 

[mandy-1975]

Sorry to hear about Mum........ your doing great too....xxx

 

[lesleyweb]

sorry about your mum rick..words can never truly say how sorry people are...xx

 

[ricke17]

Thanks guys :-D