Single and loving it :)

[suzie290304]

For years iv been single and always thought it was my weight that has prevented me from getting a boyfriend. Well since iv lost weight I have had the chance of a relationship with a lovely man, I have realised that I don't want one and probably never did and that I am happy me my child and not forgetting my dog lol. Now I realise it was never my weight and have blamed my weight for a lot of things over the years like not getting into a relationship and not socialising with friends and being constantly tiered (still shattered lol) I am now not putting any pressure on myself and going to enjoy my time with my little family happily and now I don't have the weight to blame on being single I can now fully understand that I am happy I spent the day out with my little family (even the dog) and my sisters family (her dog too) at the beach having a picnic, and I ran around the beach having a fab time (and no man was needed) lol x

 

[angiemason]

that's lovely Suzie good luck with your new happy life x

 

[Caren]

aww thats great suzie i too love being single, but people always seem to think im lying
its great aint it? xxx

 

[suzie290304]

Yep it sure is good "all the single ladies, all the single ladies, put ya hands up" lol x

 

[stuckinafatsuit]

Good for you suzie.

Kim

 

[shelleymarie]

I'm the same. People always think I must want a relationship really but to be honest I'm quite happy on my own, I'm looking forward to being slim and single too Enjoy every minute x

 

[Caren]

Yep it sure is good "all the single ladies, all the single ladies, put ya hands up" lol x

:wavey:

 

[MrsSAFC]

Fab x I love being married lol think I'd love life either way eh x

 

[dimond]

Aww suzi that's lovely. Kids mean everything and dogs ofcourse. I was very happily single for 6 years with my 2 girls but met a wonderful man 7 years ago, who Iv been married to for the last 4 years. Either way you should never have to conform to what people think is normal! As long as your happy who cares xxx

 

[Wobbletogo]

You're really attractive so I can't understand how come you haven't been fighting men off, weight or no weight! I'm single and getting to like my alone time more and more that I don't know if I'll ever be able to let a man into my space again lol I have ME/CFS so don't have the energy for their tantrums, just wish I had the energy to make some friends, that's all I need, no man just some friends

 

[suzie290304]

Thanks everyone for the comments, it's nice to see that other people have been happy single and that I'm not abnormal lol, I think wether single, married, or courting as long as your happy that's all that matters x x x

 

[suzie290304]

You're really attractive so I can't understand how come you haven't been fighting men off, weight or no weight! I'm single and getting to like my alone time more and more that I don't know if I'll ever be able to let a man into my space again lol I have ME/CFS so don't have the energy for their tantrums, just wish I had the energy to make some friends, that's all I need, no man just some friends

Glad you enjoy your alone time and totally know what you mean about letting a man into my space lol, fingers crossed that your op helps with your ME/CFS and that you get some energy back to make new friends this op does change a lot about your life and you find yourself in social situations you would normally avoid when you were bigger and enjoying it Not long now to your op and the start of your new life x

 

[embrace1204]

I so hope I start to enjoy life again once I start losing the weight cos to quote a line from a song...heaven knows I'm miserable now!

Not always been like it but the last year in particular i've been much more aware of my weight - maybe it's age! lol