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mandyl

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hi everyone
want to say THANKYOU. difficult weekend but nearly through it. you guys are helping every step of the day.
found out today that someone is being nasty about me cos ive got my date but you know what. f... em! roll on need my guy fix.:gimi:
 
Anyine being nasty is prob just jealous. It is YOUR date and yiu deserve it. You sound alot more chipper than you have been so keep it up. Not much longer now. xxxx
 
thats your date you have been given it has nothing to do with anyone else, i hope its not anyone on here being nasty to you ?
 
Hi Mandy
I wouldnt take any notice you get *****yness everywhere . So what if they dont like you getting a date it will come to all of us one day (getting a date) . You do sound a hell of a lot better today hun . Keep it up . GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR DATE . I know I shoudnt use caps but when we get our dates it shoud be shouted from the roof tops . Take care .
Margaret xx
 
Hun if it is someone on here then it is dam right out of order :( if anyone has said anything to u that is out of order then let one of the moderators know as it is not acceptable in any shape or form.
Hun pls dont put up with it, MM is a place for support and encouragement and you should not have to be on the receiving end of anyones small minded nasty remarks or comments.
You so deserve ur op and its just 4 weeks away and then it is a new chapter for you in ur life, so u grab it by both hands and fu*k off to anyone who does not like the fact that ur having surgery in 4 weeks time, its none of their friggin business !!

Hun pls pls dont put up with any nasty comments and remarks. Take care Mandy and pls remember u have so many friends here and we are always here for you xxx
 
Hi Mandy
I'm just catching up here i'm with Gail all round here, you have grown in confidence since you first joined us and that is lovely to see and i'm so shocked to think that someone on here is giving you a hard time because you have been given a date. As Margaret has said its your date and you are entitled to it, so whoever it is don't let them knock that new found confidence and you hold your head high Mandy xx
 
Hi Mandy, I know you don't know me as well as you do the others as i am pretty new here but I just wanted to say congrats on your op date that is fantastic news and as for someone on here being nasty with you about it I am gobsmacked as i thought everyone on here were lovely but as the saying goes you often find one bad apple in many a cart (my nans saying lol) I would report them as this is support forum not a place to put people down as we all feel bad enough about ourselves as it is and all need encouragement and support not to feel worse or bad for getting a date. They need to learn manners and patience we will all get there in the end.
Sorry for ranting on but i hate jeleous people that can't keep there nasty mouths shut.
Best wishes to you and hope all goes well xxx
 
Hi Mandy, glad you are feeling stronger and you sound more positive in yourself. I'm absolutely gob-smacked anyone would be funny about you getting yr date. But you know what to do - just ignore them. x
 
hi mandy.

any kind of person on here who is being nasty towards you for getting wls for improving your life is no friend....name em and shame em ...its not right . we are all meant to be supportive of each other on here. And if that person isnt ...report em .!!!!!!!!!!!!!! shame on them , and good on ya for getting ur d8 for wls..............xxxx All the best - MeJulie xx
 
Ime still in shock from it all:eek: I think this person has picked on you because you are a vunerable candidate and they are nothing more than a school yard bully, I lovvvvvvvvvvee bully`s because by god they will have bitten off more than they can chew with me I can assure you. But hey Mandy you are in control now you have your date love!!!! has the bully got theres??????? NO! didnt think so. Its nothing more than jelousy.:jelous::jelous::jelous::jelous::jelous:
 
Mandy as GailMichelle says you are evolving, in your first post you were a timid little mouse, now you are starting to growl at your bully. Good for you girl, you are entitled to your date and your chance for a healthier longer life, grab it with both hands and enjoy the ride. Don't let anyone spoil your moment, go for your dreams girl xxx
 
Hi Mandy,yes you are getting more confident so ignore childish comments. I told you in a thread a couple of weeks ago that one thing we knew for sure was the fact your surgeon would not operate unless neccessary. He would'nt queue jump just to make you happy, he would operate when it was the right time for you. Your op date has not been taken from anyone else so chin up you'll soon be done and dusted sweetheartxx
 
See Mandy!! phatmomma, Gaelic Girl, Gaynor, and loads more who have seen you florish into a more confident and lovely person that you realy are. In my eyes you just needed a little shove to let the true you shine. as I said previously read your earlier threads and now look how your confidence Shines through!!!! Good Luck for your op Mandy and for once! even if its just 1 time in your life!, think of your self and dont worry about anything else, thats not selfish its your dream and everyone is entitled to that. You take care Gail-Michelle.xx:grouphugg:
 
Hi,

I am quite new on here and I am shocked to think that someone is being nasty over you getting a date:confused:.

We all want to get a date:worthy: (pre ops I mean), but most people with common sense also know that we will get dates depending on our needs and waiting lists permitting:happy096:. All hospitals have different procedures. This person should be reported :ignore:and if nothing is done, named and shamed.

We all need support and I have never been so positive about having WLS than when I read through all the posts on here:grouphugg:. I may not reply to all of them (mainly not knowing what to put and time) but I do try and read them all.

Take Care and good luck with your WLS, I hope everything goes well and you get on fine:patback::clap:.

Take Care

Paula XX
 
Mandy if someone on here has been nasty to you please report it. You can PM Mini or DQ, or if its in a post you can click on the little red triangle to report it.
 
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