Hi Louisa
It is a difficult time trying to decide, i didn't meet the criteria for surgery so went privately. I thought i wanted the band as the extent of a bypass terrified me, however as others have mentioned its all about your eating habits. I was the classic sweet eater who lived for her chocolate, sweets and cakes and grazed all day so a bypass was definately the best option and i have to say for me personally it has been the best choice. As Angela says there are other options that if you are offered you could consider. The best thing you can do is research, be honest about your eating habits and talking to people who have been there really helps. Good luck with your decision xx