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two years since original referral and still no definite outcome...

starshaped

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Hi, I am 31,32 in Jan. My journey with food and now the journey with waiting for answers and funding has been really very complex.

In the first place, right from an early age maybe since i was about 3 or 4 I have been increasingly overweight, very over weight, obese and mow morbidly obese. In my teens I developed an eating disorder, bulimia nervosa, which hounded me for about 15 years until I addressed it, seeking help from the eating disorder team in South Birmingham where I live.

My weight was at an all time high at this point. My obsession with food the binging had led to a steady increase on my weight until I was barely mobile. I asked my gp to refer me to the weight management team so i could ask for gastric surgery. I Didn't realise that at the time of my referraL, the eating disorder consultant psychiatrist wrote a letter to the WLS consultant telling them that i was emotionally unstable and would use the operation to harm myself.

The WLS consultant told me about this letter- which it turned out was written by someone I had never met not even for a single second! the Wls consultant told me that they would be unable to proceed down the consultant wls route but that I could attend the weight management group for six months then in a yearbook so aftr that reassess me to see if i was ready for surgery.

So I went away feeling disheartened but went to the groups anyway, also I had a sleep study where I discovered that I had severe sleep apnoea, nd also found out that I have type 2 diabetes. I sought treatment for these problems but have yet to achieve stability with the diabetes side of things.

Almost 2 years after my initial referral, I was called back to the clone, by which tome I was thoroughly miserable and downhearted about everything... I just wanted the surgery and had done everything they asked. Finally I was told by the consultant that if I could just get a letter from my mental health psychiatrist... Contradicting the other letter from the eating disorder specialist then we could proceed.

I got the letter from the psychiatrist as requested only to discover another stumbling block on that I am on a lifelong course of warferin because I have a clothing disorder in my blood... This would add another layer of complication to the surgery if it were to go ahead as the warferin I take would cause me to bleed out much more severely than if I was't on it.

I have FINALLY been givn the thumbs up by my shrink and by the people at the MDT meeting and am awaiting the green light from the surgical team so that I can go for funding.

Although I dofeel disheartened, I am trying to remain positive as I think the surgery would be life changing for me. One lost about 20 kilos since my journey started but progress is slow- which is why I need the gastric bypass.

I have made significant progress with my eating disorder, i no longer have huge fingers or make myself sick... I am slightly more active than i was before...

I have attended a Wls group at heartlands hosp in Birmingham as my dietician suggested and found it really interesting and informative.

I just want to get this done now... I feel like I have been proving myself the the team for two whole years now.

I was wondering, has anyone else g
Had the surgery (gastric bypass) whilst on warferin? I would love to know how that was managed.

Keeping everything crossed that it all goes to plan!! Sorry this is so long...
 
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