bex986
New Member
Grrrrr am getting sick of peoples negativity.
All I am getting is comments and questions like
'What if you regret it, what if we go out and you can't eat how are you going to feel,' why don't you just eat less! Why do you want it, Think you'll never be able to enjoy food again!
Don't they think I have thought this through more than anything and worked for this with psychologists, dieticians etc.
I know they are only looking out for me and thinking of me but seriously can't people instrad of questioning just say thats great it'll be good for you etc!
Lol sorry for rant, dreading tomorrow, am seeing the MIL for the first time since she learnt I am getting surgery, when she heard I was considering it all she did was question and question and just say its a cheats way out!!
Am looking at this surgery on the 2nd april as a major positive and a new start but people don't half try and bring you down!
All I am getting is comments and questions like
'What if you regret it, what if we go out and you can't eat how are you going to feel,' why don't you just eat less! Why do you want it, Think you'll never be able to enjoy food again!
Don't they think I have thought this through more than anything and worked for this with psychologists, dieticians etc.
I know they are only looking out for me and thinking of me but seriously can't people instrad of questioning just say thats great it'll be good for you etc!
Lol sorry for rant, dreading tomorrow, am seeing the MIL for the first time since she learnt I am getting surgery, when she heard I was considering it all she did was question and question and just say its a cheats way out!!
Am looking at this surgery on the 2nd april as a major positive and a new start but people don't half try and bring you down!