Hi Fe
This is going to sound blunt but it's not meant to be ..
all of us on here are thinking about or have had WLS .. This is because no diet has ever worked for us and we have all wasted years losing and gaining weight , gaining extra weight each time .. Feeling like this is it , this time the diet will work , I will lose all this weight and keep it off this time .. But it never happens .
I wasted 25 plus years of precious time hauling excess weight around , making excuses for doing things , not going places , not swimming , wearing tented clothing and looking drab and older than my years .. Living each day in so much pain from my knees but pretending it's all ok and I cope .. I lived a lie . Lying to myself , my family and friends .. Waiting for the next rude comment from strangers about my size .. I have had enough .. My life is to precious to waste any longer .
I have no idea how old you are or how much you would like to lose and how it will benefit your life and family , but , for me , it was a no brainer , there wasn't a choice , surgery was the only way ..
I could only raise enough for a band , so I have no choice but to make it work for me ..
If you have money , use it for a better life ..
My opinion only
Hugs
Mindy
Xxxx