Yvessa
Well-Known Member
Hi everyone,
I have often seen threads along the lines of 'don't want to tell anyone' etc etc and I have always felt strongly that you might as well tell people, because most of them will figure it out.
I was very open with my coworkers and friends and family, and have only ever had one person be really negative (my own mum).
I showed the photo that was my yearly comparison around work this week, and I'll admit a little bit of nervousness here - would they think I was being vain?? The support I got was incredible and people have been so positive.
I even got this message from one of my colleagues who is sadly leaving to join another school
So you might wonder why I'm posting this - after all, I do agree that only you know the people in your life and whether you can tell them or not.
I'm posting because I wanted to let people who were on the fence know that normal people can understand and can support you - not every person is negative - and every bit of support you can get on this journey is invaluable.
I'll get off my soapbox now
I have often seen threads along the lines of 'don't want to tell anyone' etc etc and I have always felt strongly that you might as well tell people, because most of them will figure it out.
I was very open with my coworkers and friends and family, and have only ever had one person be really negative (my own mum).
I showed the photo that was my yearly comparison around work this week, and I'll admit a little bit of nervousness here - would they think I was being vain?? The support I got was incredible and people have been so positive.
I even got this message from one of my colleagues who is sadly leaving to join another school
Hiya
Her is my mobile, let's keep in touch. #######. You have done really well since your op and you look fantastic, keep it up. Will see you soon!
Lots of love,
So you might wonder why I'm posting this - after all, I do agree that only you know the people in your life and whether you can tell them or not.
I'm posting because I wanted to let people who were on the fence know that normal people can understand and can support you - not every person is negative - and every bit of support you can get on this journey is invaluable.
I'll get off my soapbox now