voluptuouschick
New Member
hello everyone,
I haven't been on for a while as have been so down, I hope you are all well & everything is going great for you!
I am so upset & really can't cope any longer with all this - it's been going on for absolutely ages & my nerves are shot at so I hope you don't mind me coming on here & having a good old moan as I am in tears & my hubby doesn't know what to do with me
I went to my gp last June to ask about a gastric bypass who agreed & sent me straight to a surgeon when he should have sent me to weight management first as per nice guidelines, 3 months later I eventually got an appointment - they agreed I needed surgery, referred me to the hospital dietician & asked for blood tests, so I went to my Gp had blood taken & waited for the dietician's appointment to arrive.
I saw the dietician at the beginning of December who also agreed I needed surgery & said she would go to the pct & ask for funding for me & told me she would be in touch.
Just before Christmas she rang up to say I had been awarded funding but must have a sleep apnea test first, & get the results to her so I asked my gp to arrange one for me.
After not hearing anything we enquired & found out the dr had referred me to a sleep clinic which had closed down!! so more weeks were wasted, I then got TWO appointments through for two different sleep clinics so had a massive hassle trying to sort all that out!
After doing a sleep test the clinic sent the results to the Gp but when I rang to ask the results they said they were all confused as they had come back as code & could I ring the sleep clinic to say they couldn't understand them!! so I rang & explained & the said they always send them out that way! eventually 2 weeks later my surgery rang to say they had worked out the codes & my sleep test was normal!
I then rang the dietician to tell her the results in the hope I could move forward but her answering machine was on so I left her a message, when I hadn't heard anything for a week I rang again & the answering machine came on again but this time it said she was away until today (9th March) so have just rung again & the answering machine has come on yet again!!
I am so upset with all this & just don't know what on earth to do, I have been pushed from pillar to post & haven't any idea of what's going on & am so sick of having to chase everything up myself to make sure people have done their jobs right because half of the time they haven't & if I hadn't kept on top of it all I would be still right back at square one but there is only so much a person can take isn't there?
The whole of my life, & my hubby's & childrens & grandchildrens lives are on hold waiting for this operation nobody dare book any holidays or anything despite me telling & pleading with them to carry on as normal I am almost to the point of giving up but then think after all the hurdles I have jumped with great difficulty it would be stupid to give in now - I just don't know what on earth to do...
I am so sorry for all this
Love Vicky
xxxxx
I haven't been on for a while as have been so down, I hope you are all well & everything is going great for you!
I am so upset & really can't cope any longer with all this - it's been going on for absolutely ages & my nerves are shot at so I hope you don't mind me coming on here & having a good old moan as I am in tears & my hubby doesn't know what to do with me
I went to my gp last June to ask about a gastric bypass who agreed & sent me straight to a surgeon when he should have sent me to weight management first as per nice guidelines, 3 months later I eventually got an appointment - they agreed I needed surgery, referred me to the hospital dietician & asked for blood tests, so I went to my Gp had blood taken & waited for the dietician's appointment to arrive.
I saw the dietician at the beginning of December who also agreed I needed surgery & said she would go to the pct & ask for funding for me & told me she would be in touch.
Just before Christmas she rang up to say I had been awarded funding but must have a sleep apnea test first, & get the results to her so I asked my gp to arrange one for me.
After not hearing anything we enquired & found out the dr had referred me to a sleep clinic which had closed down!! so more weeks were wasted, I then got TWO appointments through for two different sleep clinics so had a massive hassle trying to sort all that out!
After doing a sleep test the clinic sent the results to the Gp but when I rang to ask the results they said they were all confused as they had come back as code & could I ring the sleep clinic to say they couldn't understand them!! so I rang & explained & the said they always send them out that way! eventually 2 weeks later my surgery rang to say they had worked out the codes & my sleep test was normal!
I then rang the dietician to tell her the results in the hope I could move forward but her answering machine was on so I left her a message, when I hadn't heard anything for a week I rang again & the answering machine came on again but this time it said she was away until today (9th March) so have just rung again & the answering machine has come on yet again!!
I am so upset with all this & just don't know what on earth to do, I have been pushed from pillar to post & haven't any idea of what's going on & am so sick of having to chase everything up myself to make sure people have done their jobs right because half of the time they haven't & if I hadn't kept on top of it all I would be still right back at square one but there is only so much a person can take isn't there?
The whole of my life, & my hubby's & childrens & grandchildrens lives are on hold waiting for this operation nobody dare book any holidays or anything despite me telling & pleading with them to carry on as normal I am almost to the point of giving up but then think after all the hurdles I have jumped with great difficulty it would be stupid to give in now - I just don't know what on earth to do...
I am so sorry for all this
Love Vicky
xxxxx