Muttley1900
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I’ve been thinking, trying to fill the void what is otherwise known as “maintaining” (more about that in another post later I think) and it was something that BigDee's now little said that triggered this line of thought off.
So often, I’ve read posts here saying how a partner has been insensitive, non-supportive, worried that the poster is going to run off with someone else once they get to a certain weight, just doesn’t get it, is a feeder, doesn’t understand and he/she/I/have dumped/left/thrown out… because of all or some of the above.
But, BigDee’s now little thought provoking statement says, hold on, this isn’t all doom and gloom, there are some partners out there who do get it, are supportive etc etc etc. and I’ve in more than one post in the past said how I think our partners can get a bit of a rough ride on this wls roller coaster for one reason or another .
So, the point of this thread, gosh yes there is a point, as a way of celebrating all the wonderful partners out there, I’d like to hear from you with one thing that you’re partner has or hasn’t done to make your wls journey the little easier. You know, like those threads where we all rush to say how great our particular wls is because of a specific non scale victory that we get – lets say why we think our partners are great for supporting us on this journey…
My hubby put his arms round me last night before we went out with friends, told me he loved me, that I looked fabulous and that this would be the last time I would go out on a friday night at this weight, from now on I would be getting slimmer each week. I love him to bits xxx
So often, I’ve read posts here saying how a partner has been insensitive, non-supportive, worried that the poster is going to run off with someone else once they get to a certain weight, just doesn’t get it, is a feeder, doesn’t understand and he/she/I/have dumped/left/thrown out… because of all or some of the above.
But, BigDee’s now little thought provoking statement says, hold on, this isn’t all doom and gloom, there are some partners out there who do get it, are supportive etc etc etc. and I’ve in more than one post in the past said how I think our partners can get a bit of a rough ride on this wls roller coaster for one reason or another .
So, the point of this thread, gosh yes there is a point, as a way of celebrating all the wonderful partners out there, I’d like to hear from you with one thing that you’re partner has or hasn’t done to make your wls journey the little easier. You know, like those threads where we all rush to say how great our particular wls is because of a specific non scale victory that we get – lets say why we think our partners are great for supporting us on this journey…