Hi There,
Just wanted to let you know that you are perfectly normal don't worry!
It is 6 months since I had my band - I spent the first 5 months beating myself up about not loosing any weight, I went through anger, regret, feeling sorry for myself, lying about weight loss to people and making excuses.
Don't panic! It has taken me 6 months to start loosing - and I'm glad that it has been like this now. The weight I have lost has taken hard work and dedication (albeit a small amount of weight) but the fills in your band will start to make one heck of a difference when you find your sweet spot!
As for lying to people about loosing - I know what you mean, for some reason, people think it is perfectly acceptable to ask what you have lost "because they saw someone in closer magazine / Fern Britton / a friend of a friend" who has lost a million stone in 6 months!
(Mini-Rant over lol)
Take your time, your lifestyle will change, your eating habits will too, and in a few months time, you will be able to say - YES I'm loosing weight.
It's the start of a loooooong journey and you will reap the rewards in time x