overwhelming anxiety

[nikster1975]

like the others have said, I feel your pain and wish I could magic away all the bad that has happened to you, but you have many friends here who will talk whenever you need it xxxxx

I too had a Dr that wasn't that supportive and just kept plying me with different weightloss drugs and groups!!!!! so I upped my (big) ass and got another Dr and long story short she thoroughly supported my decission and I am now 8 days post bypass 2 years down the line.

Don't let them decide your future hit them full on, good luck wi docs and your journey xxxx


lots of love and best wishes

nikki

 

[tkdlass]

Hi Claire, the reality is that funding is an issue for many areas.... but you have to ask and explore plus I'm really hoping that you will get more involved with us and start to work your way forward with us... Charlie will be also helping you for sure!

Go for it, try and keep trying plus in the meantime do all possible to help yourself along too... we also do a daily food diary and a weekly weigh in on a Saturday if you want to join us for that... I'll send you the link...

Love and hugs xxx

I know your right i'll just need to find out about funding and all that when i see who i need to see about it.
Charlie helps for sure with exercise cause he gets a couple hours a day at least.

i'll have to have a wee think about the weigh ins and food diary's some days i dont eat at all im just not hungry and when i am hungry im not that hungry its really funny i hardly eat but im fat!! :O

 

[tkdlass]

Thanks Claire, a pretty name for a pretty girl,thanks for sharing!When you find the Secret Santa link add your name or Myself or Bev will.£5 max something fun or frivolous!You email the name below yours and send them the prezzie.Lots of love and welcome to our family.Maz x

yup asked a Q for you guys there!

 

[tkdlass]

like the others have said, I feel your pain and wish I could magic away all the bad that has happened to you, but you have many friends here who will talk whenever you need it xxxxx

I too had a Dr that wasn't that supportive and just kept plying me with different weightloss drugs and groups!!!!! so I upped my (big) ass and got another Dr and long story short she thoroughly supported my decission and I am now 8 days post bypass 2 years down the line.

Don't let them decide your future hit them full on, good luck wi docs and your journey xxxx


lots of love and best wishes

nikki

Nikki i think if i let my doctor know just how i feel i think he'll soon turn about his attitude about me wanting wls hes seen my highs and low through trying to lose weight for six years through HIS surgery im not about to let this go easy thats for sure!

 

[Bev]

Hi Claire, you are already taking charge and great to hear you sounding so pro active about your visit to the GP. Go for it!

Apart from walking Charlie, is there any exercise that you like to do... that certainly is a great thing...

I'm so pleased you are in touch Claire and it's one heck of a rollercoaster... but positive steps forward no matter how small are so reassuring...

Sending loads of love to you Claire and glad you are also on board with the Secret Santa....

It's a little bit of fun and nice to share some warmth around... xxx

 

[BlueDiamond]

 

[tkdlass]

Hi Claire, you are already taking charge and great to hear you sounding so pro active about your visit to the GP. Go for it!

Apart from walking Charlie, is there any exercise that you like to do... that certainly is a great thing...

I'm so pleased you are in touch Claire and it's one heck of a rollercoaster... but positive steps forward no matter how small are so reassuring...

Sending loads of love to you Claire and glad you are also on board with the Secret Santa....

It's a little bit of fun and nice to share some warmth around... xxx

Bev i LOVE sports as a child i used to dance modern ,tap ,disco , irish and highland dancing plus i was on the swim team and later the suba diving club.
then when i outgrew dancing i carried on swimming and diving then joined Taekwondo (im a blue belt four from my black) then when i had my brake down at 21 everything went to you know what
plus when i was doing all that i was either at school or college and working i never home (didnt want to be) but apart from walking charlie i got nothing.
i dont sleep most nights so i am up for days at a time and that means i can just about walk charlie and no more ive no fuel left for anything else.

i have to try and i geet over to people that no matter what i do i cant keep weight off even doing everything i was doing as a kid teen and young adult i was STILL overweight and thats the inportant part thats what i need them to get HEAR.

 

[tkdlass]

thats a real cute picture! Thanks!

 

[Bev]

Hi Claire,

You certainly have had some great interests and achievements! Plus your level in the Taekwondo.

Small steps forward and start to feel better precious... it may also be worth thinking about talking to your GP about fitness opportunities, there are things going on in the NHS nowadays with prescriptions for fitness clubs and gyms etc... so talk it over... give anything a go that makes you feel better in yourself and give it a try... hope you start to feel more hopeful... we will be around at some point tomorrow, so we'll see how you are then.. for now... I'm saying a huge Good Night to you and Charlie... snuggle up and get warm and I do hope you can rest and relax... love and hugs to you Claire and good luck !!! xxx

 

[dottychic]

Good luck Claire, If you dont ask you will never know and it might be a nice suprise. You have to fight for what you want and Im sure you will get it XX

 

[thinkbethin]

Hi sweetheart, please please don't be so hard o your self. what you have been through reflects in many of our lives so you are not alone. What I would like to see though is a more positive attitude from you. If you go looking into weight loss surgery with such negativity about your self, convincing your self it will be a waste of time then it may show those who give out funding that you would'nt be bothered if you got it or not. Go in there and show them that you are worth so much more than life has handed out to you so far. Let them no how positive you are and how committed you are to improving your health, your life and your self esteem. Hold your head up high and don't let anyone put you off this journey you are about to start.
Good luck to you and HUGE HUGE HUGS xxxxx

 

[tkdlass]

Hi Claire,

You certainly have had some great interests and achievements! Plus your level in the Taekwondo.

Small steps forward and start to feel better precious... it may also be worth thinking about talking to your GP about fitness opportunities, there are things going on in the NHS nowadays with prescriptions for fitness clubs and gyms etc... so talk it over... give anything a go that makes you feel better in yourself and give it a try... hope you start to feel more hopeful... we will be around at some point tomorrow, so we'll see how you are then.. for now... I'm saying a huge Good Night to you and Charlie... snuggle up and get warm and I do hope you can rest and relax... love and hugs to you Claire and good luck !!! xxx

I would love to go back to Taekwondo because i still love it so much but i would love to go back to class a whole new thinner me!! you know?

sorry about all that my mum phoned me and i ended up on the phone to her 45mins then the gas went out what a hour haha

i will discuss everything i need to with the people
but the fittness i dont think i could do because the local swimming pool with gym and where all those fittiness classes take place are closing!! damn SNP!! there moving the swimming and i stress just the swimming to the high school mines away well actually its a paddling pool not a swimming pool!!

So i am sitting here cussing out that phone call and my gas going off!!! sigh think i'll listening to some music.

good night Bev and thanks for the supportive words love and hugs and caring about how i feel!!

 

[tkdlass]

Good luck Claire, If you dont ask you will never know and it might be a nice suprise. You have to fight for what you want and Im sure you will get it XX

dotty - i might get one yes god i hope i do!!!
fighting for me has never be easy for me. but i'll try because i really want this.

 

[tkdlass]

Hi sweetheart, please please don't be so hard o your self. what you have been through reflects in many of our lives so you are not alone. What I would like to see though is a more positive attitude from you. If you go looking into weight loss surgery with such negativity about your self, convincing your self it will be a waste of time then it may show those who give out funding that you would'nt be bothered if you got it or not. Go in there and show them that you are worth so much more than life has handed out to you so far. Let them no how positive you are and how committed you are to improving your health, your life and your self esteem. Hold your head up high and don't let anyone put you off this journey you are about to start.
Good luck to you and HUGE HUGE HUGS xxxxx

TRIGGER IN REPLY.

If i didnt get funding and was refused surgery i would probably kill myself but im not stupid enough to let them know that but i am smart enough to know that i need this to HEAL from abused at school i SUFFERED if you were spat on by other people and told you where wrothless and your ugly and your hands were and arms where held while four other people BEAT you up if you where told i wasnt worth being born then to come home and be SEXUALLY abused EVERYDAY....my negativity is not that of my own making but of those others made for me. all i am is a fat 27 year old all i was then was a fat little girl , same thing to be thin is a whole new me and one less thing for me to recover from

i am bothered weather i get it or not
to the point my life hangs on it.

now i didnt come on this forum to tell my story or defend how i feel

i came here to CHANGE my life and try to heal from what they did to me for ten+ years

 

[thinkbethin]

TRIGGER IN REPLY.

If i didnt get funding and was refused surgery i would probably kill myself but im not stupid enough to let them know that but i am smart enough to know that i need this to HEAL from abused at school i SUFFERED if you were spat on by other people and told you where wrothless and your ugly and your hands were and arms where held while four other people BEAT you up if you where told i wasnt worth being born then to come home and be SEXUALLY abused EVERYDAY....my negativity is not that of my own making but of those others made for me. all i am is a fat 27 year old all i was then was a fat little girl , same thing to be thin is a whole new me and one less thing for me to recover from

i am bothered weather i get it or not
to the point my life hangs on it.

now i didnt come on this forum to tell my story or defend how i feel

i came here to CHANGE my life and try to heal from what they did to me for ten+ years

Please don't think I was having a dig at you sweetheart. I was saying this to help you not put you down. Just a little advice from someone who too was bullied and abused and told I was'nt worth it. Even told I was'nt my parents and that they adopted me cos they felt sorry for me and if I told of any of what was going on then they'd send me back to the childrens home. I came through this after hiding it for over 30 years so YES I do know what you are saying and YES I was only trying to help xx

 

[tkdlass]

i had no intendion of going in there all negitive what i was saying is that in MY HEAD i expect it to go badly.

but as my mother says "push it all down and forget and put a smile on your face and you'll get places"

they will be told about it if i am asked but i will tell them
but i will tell them how being overweigh has effeted my life in the way it has.