I don't have any pics but my open bypass scar seems longer then you ladies. It goes from breast bone to belly button and i had 42 staples. I am a quick healer, and the scar is now very pale. For me, to have the scar is a worthwhile addition to my body, i'd rather have it than the 9 stone i've lost so far and if it means i can never wear a bikini, or get funny looks when i do wear one, then so be it.
Also, 9 months post op i can enjoy a small burger from time to time, fish and chips also, and practically anything. Still have to keep my sugar and fat content down otherwise i just feel lousy, but i can eat bread, pasta, rice, chips, etc. There is nothing i have tried that i cannot eat. I can't eat a huge amount in one sitting, obviously my stomach is smaller, and i have to make sure i take my vitamins everyday, but in terms of food, i can eat anything i want. Which means going out with friends is enjoyable. I enjoy food, and a much bigger range of food than i ever used to eat.