Ok lets get this into perspective... The band has a 30% failure rate.. Thats the statistical number of people who have there band removed and have revisionary surgery. Of course there are people out there who don't have the band removed and just live with it.
Surgeons unless urgent tend not to wright a band off until 2years post op. So say you have a slippage or erosion the band will need to be removed ASAP, But if your simply not seeing results the surgeon will of course give it the best chance possible.
The band is no quick fix and yes you do have to be very strict on what you eat . I personally couldn't eat anything solid a tight band is not a good band It is human nature to eat so if you are hungry to a point of weakness you will eat what you can rather than what you should!
The title of the thread was be honest and I was! Thats my honest opinion I hated my band. BUT at the time it was fitted we didn't have patient choice so I had no choice as to what surgeon I saw. Now if you see a Surgeon who is only fitting bands then of course he will recommend the band!
My advice would be, 1, see a surgeon of you're choice if at all possible with the NHS not always a option.. 2, see a surgeon who does all or at least more then one surgical option,
Both operations have there downfalls and up sides.
I found being a NHS patient getting fills were a nightmare, appointments for them were few and far between. I also found from my private friends who had a band that once there after care package was finished they also had problems getting fills and they cost anywhere from £150 to £350! and they often had to travel a great distance.
Private banding also you may not just be able to go to any fill provider, Some refuse to do fills on other surgeons patients in case they puncture the tubing or they damage the band.
I am only two weeks post op regarding my bypass so don't have a huge amount of experience. But I have noticed a difference, I am no longer hungry and when I do need to "eat" just a few sips of fluid fill me up and I feel like Iv eaten a huge dinner! It was open surgery so I now have a good 7inch wound! in addition to my teeny weeny wounds were my band was placed.
I feel more relaxed about my weight loss (now I'm finally losing) I am happy I don't have to fight for fills or worry about being over filled and worrying do I sweat it out or do I get aspirated. I also have not suffered from acid reflux since my bypass and as my band was tight I also refluxed food that was awful and caused me to suffer from aspirational pneumonia.
I wish I had have had the bypass first time round, if I was self funding I deffo would not think well it's cheaper and its reversible because Obesity if life long and if the surgery is a success why would you wish to reverse it? It may also be cheaper but would it be in the long run if the band had to be removed?
When I knew my band needed revising I emailed a few EU surgeons. i wanted quotes for the bypass I suggested I have my band removed in the UK and have surgery in the EU. All of them without exception said they would not operated on me if I had my band removed in the UK and they wanted 15 to 17 thousand euro for the revision (this was two years ago I still have the email replies). They wanted to do the procedure all in one. In the end I needed a two stage revision due to the damage the band caused and the fact my stomach was white with little blood supply.
For me I worried all the time something was wrong, this stress only aggravated my restriction, When your anxious blood rushes through your body making your stomach swell this tightens restriction, I also found my periods effected my restriction and sometimes morning to evening the restriction was different. I never had a safe food or anything restriction was so unpredictable. When the band was very tight and I couldn't eat anything I'd be worried it may have slipped.. I was always worried!
I also found that will power was a problem, My desire to eat was stronger than my will power not to. I didn't have the strength to do it pre op and i found post op the band needed as much determination and will power and it was a constant diet.
MOST of all!! I found that support was few and far between! Every one assumed the bands failure was down to lack of patient compliance! I found most of all the least sympathetic was other bandsters!! it was like they refused to admit the band could fail.. If it could fail then it could fail for them and they didn't want to face that reality. I found bypass patients to me more realistic. Even pre op most have them had decided on bypass because they knew of the band pitfalls. I found bandsters knew of them but didn't want to be realistic about them!
Even if the band did fail due to lack of patient compliance you shouldn't look down on that person because at the end of the day we all decided on surgery because we couldn't lose the weight ourself. Some of us just need a power tool to get the job done! manual tools are ok if you know how to use them and work with them.
It's not just about eating habits it's about lifestyle. and if your quite emotional suffer from stress and anxiety and you eat as a result thats not going t change simply because of a little gastric band. You have to make them changes and when your battling demons sometimes it very hard to stick to the rules of banding..