PANICING!

[dinkydink]

I'm off to pay for my surgery today (puke!) and have my bloods done. Is it normal to be thinking OH MY GOD WHAT ON EARTH AM I DOING AM I CRAZY OH NO I DONT WANT TO GO??? help! :8855:

 

[Bluebutterflier]

LOL Yes...its normal....I was like that until i was having my anethesia....I was thinking 'Am I doing the right thing, am I crazy, perhaps im not that big, perhaps I can do it'

But when I woke up properly....I was like 'Thank goodness its over, the mind and body can start working together at last'

Your'll be fine. I see quite a few people on this site who have had Mr super...He does a good job....

REMEMBER -if the band doesnt work for you, you can have it taken out....but if you work with it, your'll sure to love it like most on here

 

[jackie_baker67]

yeah

u panicin over partin with the money lol as for the opp you be fine and good luck hpoe all goes well. jackie

 

[dinkydink]

a bit of both! i keep thinking what i could spend the money on instead i feel guilty! thanks ladies i thought it was a normal reaction but its caught me by surprise today!!!!!

 

[TriciaOK]

Completely normal. I did the same. I think it's funny the amount of guilt we have for taking care of ourselves. "it's too much money, we could use it in other/better ways, shouldn't take the time, what if I'm too different...." We're always last on that list, aren't we? Work thru it knowing you won't regret any of it a few months time. This is the best investment for your future...good luck!

 

[Louise1]

Years ago my mother told me the best way to justify spending money on myself. I was buying a Ted Baker leather jacket that was £400 and was having a guilt fit. She pointed out it was a classic piece (I still wear it) and to work it out cost per wear. I've been wearing it for around 10 years now so cost per wear is negligible.
Now look at your operation that way. If you're currently spending £1 a day on chocolate that's £365 a year. Extrapolated over a few years your band has paid for itself if it only stops you having that £1 daily chocolate.
It's an investment in you and cost per day it's a bargain.
xx

 

[dinkydink]

you lot are amazing!!!!! i feel better now..! ive had my bloods done and paid. AARGH! i nearly skipped out of Dolan Park I was so excited D

 

[Louise1]

You're very welcome Dinky!!
Good luck with youre journey and make sure you keep us informed!!
xx

 

[sam37]

I felt exactly the same, having wasted 5 grand b4 on a balloon and now another loan for simular sort of thing the guilt of 10 grand coul, taken me kids disney or something had a posh house ect but a lady replied to my post on here she said " dont feel guilty ur doing this for your kids so u are here longer" ive kept that inmy head and am praying for the strength to work with this thing. I wanna be a fit nanna not too knackered or cant be bothered one

 

[suzie123]

Hi,

I had my consultation yesterday in Liverpool I am having a band on 3rd may and I had all of the above doubts but yesterday I had my mind put to rest so dolan park here I come.

 

[dinkydink]

Yay We can start a girl band called the dolans!! Lol! I had Disney on my kind too, although my son is so excited about me losing weight just one trip to the swimming baths will make his day bless him

 

[snack]

Lol the dolans that made me chuckle , I'm just waiting for my driver to pick me up to go to Dolan park for my band :/ xx

 

[Fuffs]

Lol the dolans that made me chuckle , I'm just waiting for my driver to pick me up to go to Dolan park for my band :/ xx

Exciting!!! Good luck xxx

 

[dinkydink]

Good luck snack!!! Xx

 

[snack]

Thanks ladies just seen your post , all went well just wish this trapped wind would disappear TMI lol xx