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Magsy

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Just a quick update re mum. Had another scan at Chrisites and they have now found that her Carotid artery in her neck is blocked. One side is nearly blocked and the other part way. It seems that things go from bad to worse. She has now lost another 10 pounds since we last went so is now in her 7stones. She has no appetite and it is difficult to convince her to eat, yet she is more worried about me having the bypass, may have to postpone to stop her worrying so much. Not sure what to do at the moment. Wow feel better now ive got that off my chest. Thanks guys x
 
Oh Magsy my lovely... I am so sorry the news for your mum is not better :(. Are they sorting the blockage out? I struggled to get my mum to eat for months & it is heartbreaking. Is she home? Sorry to fire questions at you but it is only out of concern. You must do what you think right for you re the operation ... seems rock & hard place is where you are living at the minute, babe ... we are here for you if you need to talk, anytime xxx :)
 
Oh My...So very sorry to hear this...I sincerely hope that your Mum will get sorted out soon.

Take Care & feel free to PM if you so wish

Andy xx
 
Send you loads of love and strength hun xxxxxxxxx
 
Oh hun I want to come give u a cuddle, hope your mum gets better, u must do what you feel is right, but know how much u want this hun and you nearly there xxxxx
 
i hope she's feeling better soon and you can manage not to worry too much x
 
you must do what is right for you all but, wls may save your life and if you want to be here for mam long term it may be the best option to have it done xxxxxxxxxxxxxx p.s have you got other family to share the load if so get them on board dont do it all yourself xxxxxxxxxxxx
 
Hope everything is ok with your mum you must do what your heart tells you is best for you xx
 
Well after much soul searching and lots of discussions with mum, she says she will be so upset if i dont have it done and it means a lot to her as well to her to know that i will become more healthy. Have agreed to have my surgery on 31st of this month so mixed feelings of excitement and guilt. Thankyou all for your support and love xxx
 
Oh Magsy, that is wonderful :D Don't feel guilty, honey ... you have been there for your mum & she knows that, but, as your mum she also wants the very best for you, as all mum's do for their children no matter what age. You will be in a better position to cope with whatever comes next if you are fitter in yourself, which you will be in a very short time after surgery. I wish you all the luck in the world for you & your mum, honey ((hugs)) xxxx :)
 
I agree with Twinkle hun you need to take some time out for your health (((hugs))), i know how you feel last time i ignored my health when my sister was dying and mum had altzhimers i ended up with cancer which was just caught in time so this time im dealing with it so im there for my hubby as his health is not good but if im fitter i will be able to help him,so chin up and do as your mum tells you, she knows best and loves you xxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
awww thats great magsy :) my mum would do the same too, no guilt honey please, you deserve this :) xxx
 
I agree with Twinkle hun you need to take some time out for your health (((hugs))), i know how you feel last time i ignored my health when my sister was dying and mum had altzhimers i ended up with cancer which was just caught in time so this time im dealing with it so im there for my hubby as his health is not good but if im fitter i will be able to help him,so chin up and do as your mum tells you, she knows best and loves you xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Oh Dawn, my heart goes out to you too ((hugs)). Why is it some people have to contend with soooo much whilst others just sail through life without a care. My neighbour has never had a health problem in her life, no money worries, lovely hubby & family & yet you cannot have a conversation with her without a long list of moans about how hard done by she is ... her latest complaint is the road works at the end of our road ... does not affect us in the least as there are other routes to follow but she has to complain about something. :mad: Funny at first but very wearing after a few years. Guess adversity really does make us stronger & whatever does not kill us etc ... Chin up, both Magsy & Flower xxx :):)

 
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