milliemollymandi1234
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I have my first appointment with the hospital (Salford Royal). I'm so happy and can't wait for the op. I need the surgery for reasons of health and wanting to be there for my son. We have a family history if obesity and related health illnesses. I was so excited and told my family. Husband is great and has been watching documentaries with me.
It's my Mum that I can't get over. We have a friend whom had surgery and it's great for her. She is soo happy. My mum is so supportive of her doing it. When I said I was having the surgery (please god), she said she would not support me.
She says she can't understand why I can't lose the weight and the surgery is a cop out. She's questioned why I can't just lose weight despite everything under active thyroid etc. she question why u would do it when I have a little one . It's because if little one that I am doing this I need to see them grow.
She was the one person who I thought would route for me.
She's asking questions about when time scales etc and I can't tell her anything.
Low day
It's my Mum that I can't get over. We have a friend whom had surgery and it's great for her. She is soo happy. My mum is so supportive of her doing it. When I said I was having the surgery (please god), she said she would not support me.
She says she can't understand why I can't lose the weight and the surgery is a cop out. She's questioned why I can't just lose weight despite everything under active thyroid etc. she question why u would do it when I have a little one . It's because if little one that I am doing this I need to see them grow.
She was the one person who I thought would route for me.
She's asking questions about when time scales etc and I can't tell her anything.
Low day
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