when i first decided to have my band, i was in 2 minds as to whether go public about it or not. i felt that if i told everyone, i would be under pressure to perform and that people might feel it was their business to ask me routinely what i had lost etc.... but on the other hand, my world is pretty small and i knew that those who matter would support me, which is what i needed so i went public.
if i were a celebrity tho...and one widely adored by the nation i think i would have kept it to myself too. fern must have figured that she would have been under media debate....shows having phone-in votes on whether she should do it or not. then she would have been constantly hounded by all these women mags and the press for weekly updates. she probably would have even been slated for 'only' losing 3 stones. she would be photographed in restaurants and put up for utter ridicule. she may have been slated for advertising low fat snacks whilst personally favouring surgery.
what a circus that all would have been and how would that have affected her success? how would it have made the public feel? i would be sick of the sight of her if there had been constant reports on her minute by minute progress.
on top of all that....she would have been publicly endorsing surgery when for her it was a very personal choice. not up for debate, phone-in votes, womens mags comparing her to Anne Diamond and all that malarky.
good on her....i would have done exactly the same. i went public because sadly, my world ends at the school playground and no one really cares what i do but in her shoes, i wouldnt have wanted the world making it their business when its no ones choice but hers.
ya gotta love fern...she must have cringed every time she was spread over these mags and analysed for her weight loss. it must have been hard going public over something she would have personally felt didnt need justifying. poor woman. now she looks fab and is happy with what shes done so i doubt she will care what the media make of it now. well done Fern xxxx