Hi ya Sleeve Girl.
Good luck too hon. Yes the letters came together for pre op and op date. It is proper nerves like before sitting an exam. I think its all the what ifs. Which make me plan like mad and make lists to try and calm me down. If I am prepared then hopefully will be calmer. We are going to a wedding in July and just hope I can be none sickie by then. Husband is excited as he will get two dinners and I am not sure if I will even be able to have a glass of champers. So he will have two of them too! lol He has enjoyed this year so far as I have been T total since New Years with one blip. We have decided to set targets and rewards. So no eating out until we go to family's wedding. reward is new outfit for the wedding. He wants to lose 30kg this year too so he is also trying and no longer complains much at the veggies and fish I am cooking for dinner. He has even stopped moaning about the lettuce in his sandwiches! I know I would struggle if he was not behind me on this. I had to point out that when I quit smoking I had to avoid smokers for a couple of years after. I have had to get him to agree not to bring home naughty foods. (which was hard for him as he works for a large Chocolate company)
However I must say the rewards is working we have both picked a reward we can have when we reach mini targets. and main target, Holidays, clothes, sunbed hire, mountain bike are on our lists. We also have a penality clause of if either says they want a takeaway or eat out the other says NO and gets to pick an outing which the other can not say dont want to. ie go to watch movies and good person gets to pick the film. Or he will take me to the theatre if he mentions take away. Have you decided on any treats for you reaching targets along this long journey?