Want2b3 the pros and cons list is a fantastic idea, thankyou, along with @Rose2016 idea of adding up weight lost over the years, thankyou. I do know that this is 100% what I need to do, i'm 52 so have been dieting forever and need to have control over my eating so I see this as my last hope really. I just wish the dreaded operation part was [email protected] bless you I totally understand that feeling of utter panic.Rose what you have written is what has been going through my mind. I have been adding up the lbs lost which I am talking 3 people's weight and then putting on more. I believe it is an addiction that is sadly not recognosised like other addictions so support is not their in society hence these places are so precious.
I to know deep down it is 100% the right thing to do these wobbles happen to the most of us. Thank you for sharing it really helps. I hope too I can be in your shoes sharing helping others in 7 weeks.
@Dollydot I spent most my last 14 years feeling a loser being like this. Losing now will make us winners in so many ways health, confidence, relationships, work and play. The upset one minute great and crying next is normal it is part of the biggest battles we have in life is with our own selves. If you write down the pros and cons you will have one very long list and one very short one like I did. Can't believe I am giving support when 2 days ago in a mess.....but this is how it is.