wannabeminime
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I've been at work! I always try to be polite, I hope I haven't offended anyone!
I have a day off the forum so I missed this .
Personally I try to be nice & helpful . If at any time I have offended anyone I apologise xx
Fuffs said:What was playground bullying? This thread was started over a argument yesterday. Not the weekend threads that got out of hand.
suzie290304 said:Hi it was sharon's diary, I wouldn't of called it an argument it just seemed like one person making very negative comments which was what I call bullying as I look at it if that was my thread and someone said things like that to me it would make me not want to come back. But sorry if this post was on about some other thread their has been a few discussions lately lol x
I have not read that diary. But have been messaged a caption from it that refers to me and another member making snide remarks.
I have never been nasty to Sharon. I tried to diffuse issues on her thread and was attacked for it. And next I am vilified. Another member got a private rude message. Not me as she ascertains.
I have had enough. I have done nothing and she makes me out to be a nasty, boring, bullying bypasser.
I will not be made to look like someone I am not! This has actually upset me a lot now x
chrisa said:
There are somethings we just have to rise above its all to easy to sink to the same level very quickly. Thankfully i was sleeping when all this occurred. xx
Karlos said:Nope I've just been really busy and only just seen this tread
Now I've been really quiet lately as I've been really busy with work and trying to stay alive so I'm sure this thread isn't about me Is it?
However I guess I would be guilty of being one of the "know it all's" who you and others are alluding to, who posts patronising comments that often seem harsh. I frankly couldn't care less what anyone thinks about my posts and anyone who thinks I'm a keyboard warrior who would never say the things I say to someones face, really doesn't know me at all I am a firm believer in telling it like it is without the kittens and rainbows approach and if people don't like what I say then use the ignore function.
If you want advice from those who have made this a success then take the rough with the smooth, they post years after they have reached goal because they care about your ultimate success, if you want me to tell you that its OK to drink booze two weeks out or eat crap at a month out then sorry but that particular shop is closed for business, there are plenty of sycophantic members here who post absolute drivel because they know no better and think that telling you everything will be OK is the best for you, it isn't but I'm sure they will satisfy your bad choice approval needs if you let them
I have not read that diary. But have been messaged a caption from it that refers to me and another member making snide remarks.
I have never been nasty to Sharon. I tried to diffuse issues on her thread and was attacked for it. And next I am vilified. Another member got a private rude message. Not me as she ascertains.
I have had enough. I have done nothing and she makes me out to be a nasty, boring, bullying bypasser.
I will not be made to look like someone I am not! This has actually upset me a lot now x
I will try my best to rise above it. Just hate bull. If people are honest I can cope. But lies drive me insane.
Ok... Breathe.., calmness xx
I have not read that diary. But have been messaged a caption from it that refers to me and another member making snide remarks.
I have never been nasty to Sharon. I tried to diffuse issues on her thread and was attacked for it. And next I am vilified. Another member got a private rude message. Not me as she ascertains.
I have had enough. I have done nothing and she makes me out to be a nasty, boring, bullying bypasser.
I will not be made to look like someone I am not! This has actually upset me a lot now x
Fuffs said:I have not read that diary. But have been messaged a caption from it that refers to me and another member making snide remarks.
I have never been nasty to Sharon. I tried to diffuse issues on her thread and was attacked for it. And next I am vilified. Another member got a private rude message. Not me as she ascertains.
I have had enough. I have done nothing and she makes me out to be a nasty, boring, bullying bypasser.
I will not be made to look like someone I am not! This has actually upset me a lot now x
angeeb said:I'd agree that things said/aimed at you were wrong and uncalled for....i've never noticed you be anything other than sweet and helpful....but so were the comments made on Sharon's post op diary thread (unneccessary and uncalled for)(not by you) so it seems to me some people are just trying to "get back at her" which to me is so 14 year old school girlish
Karlos, my post that you have highlighted in no way referred to you.. There have been some ongoing threads where people have made personal really nasty attacks against others. In no way constructive or offering advice, just abusive.
I hope you're doing well/better and your direct advice and approach has been a miss!!
xx