Trust me to be controversal, but I have to say I do think that the by pass was easy, well it was for me I have sailed through it and I am far from a spring chicken.
It was much easier than going on a diet, losing weight then putting it back on again, then getting depressed because you feel a failure.
We all know what we are getting into and the problems that can happen, ie the dumping etc.
She, like me, went private so didnt have the agonising wait for the surgery so that part was easy for her. Although I have had to give up a lot to pay for mine it was worth it.
If someone comments on how much weight I have lost I actually tell people I have taken the easy way out, cause for me........ I have. I dont regret it and I dont feel at all ashamed for doing that and I couldnt give a toss what anyone thinks about my decision.
If I had been a drug addict, an alcholic or a smoker I would of got loads of support from the NHS, but because I was a fatty I never, even though I was constantly depressed over my weight or my lack of will power and my food addiction.
Hope my post doesnt upset anyone, but that is just my opinion.