Kizzy70
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I'm really worried about comments my husband made a couple of days ago regarding my upcoming gastric bypass.
He is really concerned that I am doing the wrong thing, and has said I should be doing this myself slowly and not looking at surgery.
It's made me feel so emotional, and I'm struggling to discuss matters with him.
I'm now worried that if the worst happens he will never forgive me, we are quite a social couple and enjoy our meals out and the occasional drink, and I know if I have surgery things will be very different, but feel prepared for this.
I'm so confused!! It took a long time to come to this decision, and now I feel so mixed up. I have explained that I have not been able to do this on my own for the past 20 years, and that I have tried and tried and have ended up putting on more weight with every failure.
Don't really think he understands the daily struggle I go through, and don't think I can really talk to him about it (he has never had a weight problem).
I know he is only saying this because he loves me, but I now feel so alone :cry:
Did anyone else have this with their OH?? and how did you cope??
Thanks guys
Kim
He is really concerned that I am doing the wrong thing, and has said I should be doing this myself slowly and not looking at surgery.
It's made me feel so emotional, and I'm struggling to discuss matters with him.
I'm now worried that if the worst happens he will never forgive me, we are quite a social couple and enjoy our meals out and the occasional drink, and I know if I have surgery things will be very different, but feel prepared for this.
I'm so confused!! It took a long time to come to this decision, and now I feel so mixed up. I have explained that I have not been able to do this on my own for the past 20 years, and that I have tried and tried and have ended up putting on more weight with every failure.
Don't really think he understands the daily struggle I go through, and don't think I can really talk to him about it (he has never had a weight problem).
I know he is only saying this because he loves me, but I now feel so alone :cry:
Did anyone else have this with their OH?? and how did you cope??
Thanks guys
Kim
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