tuu
Active Member
Hi guys
I wanted to start a diary about my journey that I have literally this week just started.
All my adult life I have been overweight struggling to become that much sought after slim girl that everyone thinks you should be.....I've always been healthy I don't smoke or drink much but I LOVE FOOD and there is my problem. I hate the fact I can't seem to change I always end up on a roller coster of losing a bit and putting it on again.
I lost alot of weight about 10 years ago ironically when I was expecting my first little boy but sadly he wasn't meant to stay with us and we lost him. From that point my life has spiralled into a never ending food fest I know I eat when I'm unhappy and it was like I ate for comfort even tho I knew I shouldnt. I was told by specialist that I needed to.lose weight and woukd have more chance to become pregnant again if I did and God knows I tried really hard but something in my subconscious seemed to stop me . I truly believe sunconcieously I was preventing it as I knew if I didn't fall pregnant again as much as I really wanted to if I was fat and didn't fall I wouldn't have to deal with the heartache that I had before. I truly believe the nhs need to recognise the fact that most food issue are related to uncontrollable sub concious feelings and counselling help may help towards how we deal with food. Ohhh I don't know but just maybe anyway...here I am knowing that if I don't do something drastic I'm going to end up ill.
I just want to be able to live my life and not just exist ....to run about and not worry about can i fit in that chair or has the place we are staying g got a proper wide door on the shower cubicle so I can fit in...I've bee to.places that haven't and what a nightmare having to strip wash and not shower ...really awful.
so hopefully this week after plucking up the courage to talk to my GP my journey will start ....if you've got this far in my ramblings thanks for reading and would be lovely to hear your experiences as I'm new to this ...I shall update my diary as time goes on ...thankyou xx
I wanted to start a diary about my journey that I have literally this week just started.
All my adult life I have been overweight struggling to become that much sought after slim girl that everyone thinks you should be.....I've always been healthy I don't smoke or drink much but I LOVE FOOD and there is my problem. I hate the fact I can't seem to change I always end up on a roller coster of losing a bit and putting it on again.
I lost alot of weight about 10 years ago ironically when I was expecting my first little boy but sadly he wasn't meant to stay with us and we lost him. From that point my life has spiralled into a never ending food fest I know I eat when I'm unhappy and it was like I ate for comfort even tho I knew I shouldnt. I was told by specialist that I needed to.lose weight and woukd have more chance to become pregnant again if I did and God knows I tried really hard but something in my subconscious seemed to stop me . I truly believe sunconcieously I was preventing it as I knew if I didn't fall pregnant again as much as I really wanted to if I was fat and didn't fall I wouldn't have to deal with the heartache that I had before. I truly believe the nhs need to recognise the fact that most food issue are related to uncontrollable sub concious feelings and counselling help may help towards how we deal with food. Ohhh I don't know but just maybe anyway...here I am knowing that if I don't do something drastic I'm going to end up ill.
I just want to be able to live my life and not just exist ....to run about and not worry about can i fit in that chair or has the place we are staying g got a proper wide door on the shower cubicle so I can fit in...I've bee to.places that haven't and what a nightmare having to strip wash and not shower ...really awful.
so hopefully this week after plucking up the courage to talk to my GP my journey will start ....if you've got this far in my ramblings thanks for reading and would be lovely to hear your experiences as I'm new to this ...I shall update my diary as time goes on ...thankyou xx